What do you do when you really love someone, and you know they feel the same way, but outside problems are making it hard for the two of you to be together.
Is it best to wait and hope things get better, I've tried helping her, being nice, giving advice, nothing seems to work.
2006-10-04 05:50:35 · 9 answers · asked by metevs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will give you a little bit of advice here. I have just recently went through what seems to be the same issue you are going through now. Never let outside issues become an issue at home. If you love her, let her know EVERYDAY or at least anytime you can tell her. Let her know that she is the only thing that you want or need in life. If she means that much to you, then it will be easy to do.
If you are confused yourself and you need some space, then do it. That way you can spend all of your time actually thinking about what you need and what you want. If you get back together and things still seem strange, then talk it out. Make sure to keep all communications open. No matter how much it will hurt that other person. It will work out faster and more effectively in the long run if you just talk things out. Its hard at first, but if you truly believe that the girl you are with loves you then she will understand and she will keep her communication open as well.
It wont be fun, but in the long run it will pay off! I am with my boyfriend of 3 years and we have our ups and downs, much like any other couple, but I can honestly say that we are inlove and we always will be. As long as you gain a friendship you should be fine. Trust is a VERY big clause in a relationship and you need to trust in one another to make it last. Goodluck and I hope I have helped in some way!!! :)
2006-10-04 05:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by jzbebegyrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on what those outside problems are. Is she married, dating someone else, do her parents hate you?
If you're not waiting out another relationship, I say that you give it some time. If she's what you want, and you are willing to be patient - then work with her.
Do what makes you happy - and remember, life is short!
2006-10-04 05:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by jt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and u both decide what the best way to handle these problems will be. if the problems are other people then go to them together and ask for their cooperation or help. if u show a united front that's going to be pretty hard to defeat. best of luck guy. some hard decisions are going to have to be made but make them together.
2006-10-04 05:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem but its my family. if you both love each other and want to make it work make it work. dont let them get inbetween you because it may be easy now but they will rip your life into shreads. my family almost broke me and my fiance up a week after and inbetween about 3-5 times. dont let them cause if you do they will. tell them to go screw themselves
2006-10-04 05:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by miraclebaby_2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as patient as you can be. I think I am finally starting to figure out I have to be there when I can, recharge when I can't, and let her know where I am at with it. Jesus, I think I just had an epiphany!!! I am going to call her!
2006-10-04 05:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the other person has problems that they need resolve themselves.
2006-10-04 05:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you must try to find a way to tell her how yoy feell about it.you could try to writte a letter our send an e-mail
2006-10-04 05:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by anamaria g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on being nice to her and it might probably work.
2006-10-04 05:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should help her and always be there for her! advice is always great!
2006-10-04 05:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋