ok ladies if u met a guy and u wanted to get down w/ him and he wasnt ready would that turn u off or turn u away from him?
2006-10-04 05:49:34 · 18 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, but it might make me think that he's not interested
2006-10-04 05:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi luv!
I've often been with guys who thought I was "too quick" for them.
Usually I don't mind... I actually respect a guy who can take his time and go slow... such a relief from the "male s.l.u.t.s" out there! But there were a few times when I was so horny, I almost begged the guy to satisfy me in other ways... Which he usually did, and then I would return the favour when he was in the mood!
But not all girls are that open... My GF said she once almost snapped at a guy who refused to get down with her? She said like "is he a f.a.g or something?" and "what kind of guy refuses sex?".
All I have to say is personnal: if a guy wants to take it slow, then fine by me, but he'd better get ready to be rocked and rolled like crazy when he is ready!
2006-10-04 13:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never in my life have I had to make the first move and never has a guy wanted to wait. I would probably turn away and think something is not right with him. Its not my fault, this is how guys have made it.
2006-10-04 12:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! And if it does, you are with the wrong girl. Self-respect is very important. I give you sooooo much credit for saying you aren't ready. Most guys would just do it to avoid any embarrassment. GOOD FOR YOU!! DOn't do anything unless you know you are making the right decision for you!
2006-10-04 12:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither... So what if he's not ready... I've told plenty of guys that IM NOT READY and they understand, So I should expect that a girl could understand as well...
2006-10-04 12:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have NEVER met a man that would turn down oral sex...once you have his c*ck in your mouth and make him shoot his semen down your throat, he will be ready for other things as well...
2006-10-04 14:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by joyce smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that may turn him off. He may think you want to get down with every guy you meet and that is not cool girlfriend.
2006-10-04 12:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetbabygurl318 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care, it actually would probably make me want him more..the thrill of the chase...lol....b/c when the deed does happen, it could be amazing and worth the wait.....sex isn't everything, and any REAL, mature woman/man will agree with that!
2006-10-04 12:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Roxanne M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on age, and situation. if he's a virgin it's a turn on; girls like guys want to be the one to pop the cherry. if he says no just because he is not in the mood...etc. she might feel like he doesn't find her attractive.
2006-10-04 12:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by nelly78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would turn a woman on, and it would make her respect him more. Personally if that happened to me at first i'd worry, is it me doesn't he fancy me but then i think it'd be sweet and i'd feel more respected.
2006-10-04 12:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by vickicraig86@btinternet.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't matter. It wouldn't turn me off or on.
2006-10-04 13:07:14 · answer #11 · answered by taisa v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋