well i lie on my gf alot ! just in some small things!
2006-10-04 05:36:44 · 29 answers · asked by sMoOkEr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Little white lies are o.k sometimes. just as long as it's not about anything huge, that would directly effect her.
2006-10-04 05:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this first...does it help you or how you feel if you lie to begin with? Do you lie because you dont trust how she will take things if you tell her the truth? If you do, just talk to her, let her know how you feel and if she ends up getting mad (depending on the situation) then maybe you two arent "bestfriends" like you thought you were. I say bestfriends because that is exactly what you gain out of a relationship. Its not just a relationship that goes sour, its an actual friendship that if you lose you will never feel the same again.
So if you really do want something out of your relationship, you should stop lying to your girl and start focusing on your friendship. It will only get worse if you keep lying. And you will never gain the friendship that you are looking for later on if its all built on lies. Goodluck!!! :)
2006-10-04 05:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by jzbebegyrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! That's not a beautiful thing. I am a girl and I can tell you I hate it when someone lies to me. And I would feel very sad if it was my boyfriend. Don't hide anything from her. You'll see she will appreciate that and she won't criticize your little flaws, no one is perfect. Never forget this: trust is the basis for any relationship and it is what keeps it strong!! So if you truly love your girlfriend, be honest and you'll be the happiest man in the world... No, the second happiest, the happiest one is my boyfriend :) Well, at least I hope so.
2006-10-04 05:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to be honest with your girlfriend and if she gets angry at you over decisions you make, then tough. She has to love you for you and if you are telling little white lies all the time, they will catch up with you sooner or later, see lies are hard to keep track of. I am completely honest with my husband at all times, when we were dating and I told little white lies, I would always get caught, which would cause us to fight worse than if I would have just told him the truth. It took me many years to figure this out and I believe now, honesty is the best policy, you want your relationship to built on trust, cause without trust your relationship will eventually fail.
How would you feel if she was lying to you?
2006-10-04 05:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No-no-no-no-no-no-no, don't lie....as Black Eye Peas sing, it's not a good thing to lie...even for small things....why do you do it, anyway?? If it is to surprise her or not to worry her, it may be acceptable, but if it's just for the sport of lying, better quit it....just an opinion....
2006-10-04 05:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tell the truth when a good lie will do better
2006-10-04 05:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hecks naw!!!! Try ur best not to in a relationship u sould be able to trust ur other i'm not saying stop lying all together (although it would be good for u) but do try to tell the truth she'll luv u 4 this.
2006-10-04 05:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by indiadeknowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, under no circumstances. flow OVER TO HIS homestead (without word if attainable) and ask him what the cope with it replaced into in front of his mothers and dads, then you particularly gets an extremely thrilling answer. basically think of how plenty you're able to stuff him over if hed have been given you pregnant and youd lied to him approximately it for 9 months. He could be quite pissed I think of, and you're allowed to be besides. good success getting the reality :)
2016-10-18 11:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by equils 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, lying only leads to more lie and more damage down the road. Tell the truth if you can't tell the truth then you need to ask yourself do you deserve your girlfriend
2006-10-04 05:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by grenadianjewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope bc if she cant believe you when u lie about something small how can she believe when it's something serious? she won't and the truth always comes out in 1 way or another!
2006-10-04 05:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine to lie on tiny things, like how much you paid for something, etc... But not when it comes to cheating, thats just bogus.
2006-10-04 05:39:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋