See I made a bad decision, and now me and my boyfriend have trust issues. I really love him and everything, but its hard for me to talk to him. What can I do to make things easier between me and him?
2006-10-04 05:29:05 · 7 answers · asked by hotchick5195 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be patient. I don't know what happened to make him not trust you, but once trust has been broken in a realtionship, it take time to heal. Reassure him as often as possible that you are sorry and that you really want things to work.
Talking about the issue that took place will be helpful. Even if you are doing all the talking, you need to be sure that he understands that you realize that you made a mistake.
Good luck!
2006-10-04 05:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the decision you made.
Trust is the foundation of any relationship, if you don't have it, your relationship is basically going nowhere fast!
If you feel he's going to continually use it as his "ace card" you may want to consider if the relationship is worth it salvaging.
However if there is something there just give it some time and let him know you are truly sorry for what you've done.
2006-10-04 12:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just had this same problem. Your love for him will help resolve the problem. You just have to wait until he's comfortable. If you're truly sincere with what you say when you talk to him, he'll be able to pick up on it. Then you guys can start to patch up the little rip in the blanket of trust.
2006-10-04 12:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to regain trust. Make things easier by ALWAYS being trustworthy. You don't have to worry about what you said or did if you ALWAYS tell the truth and act with integrity.
I don't care what the other girls say. . . sex does NOT regain his trust. . . sometimes it works the opposite. Sex is NEVER a cure all.
2006-10-04 12:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have really good sex and then talk to him. Trust me....he'll listen after you give him some good sex. It always works for me!!
2006-10-04 12:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time.
2006-10-04 12:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL HÄ°M
2006-10-04 12:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by severler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋