Me and my boyfriend are friends with another couple that we went to high school with, they're a year older than we are . Anyway the guy of the other couple is a BIG cheater. They've been together for around two years and in those to years he has gained at least ten sexual partners and counting. Now they're married and he's still cheating. The thing is she suspects it and people have told her numerous times that they have seen him with multiple girls in her car... he's had sex with other girls in her car, she ask him about it but he throws her an attitude and she leaves it were it's at. I've told her that he lies to her about where he's going,he never wants her to go anywhere with us. I didn't say anything about the amount of females there has been. I know all this stuff because i'm usually around and me and my boyfriend are always talking to him about it. He doesn't care though, i think he is wasting her time and in the end she is going to be hurt.What should i do?
2006-10-04 05:17:40 · 4 answers · asked by NA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on how good of a friend you are to her and your husband is to him. In the end, you may end up looking like the jerk, and she may not believe you. If she were my friend, I would notify the cheating husband that I was going to tell his wife, but I would give him time to fess up himself. I would want to know if my husband cheated on me. Good luck.
2006-10-04 05:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her. Yes, she'll be hurt. But she can move on. If you're a good friend, you'll let her know. Tell her the number. She always hears about him from other people, but it's not registering. Record a conversation with him and play it for her. That is an extreme way to go, but it may be what she needs. A good friend will do whatever it takes to make sure their friends are happy. The pain will hurt for a while, but she'll get over it.
2006-10-04 05:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you've done everything that you can. if she dosnt want to see what is right in front of her face then so be it. i would hate the thought of someone getting hurt, but you cant live her life for her.
2006-10-04 05:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her so she can decide whether to stay or go. Be fair to her.
2006-10-04 05:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋