We have been dating for 16 months now he takes care of me in all different kinds of ways but he is still with his wife do you think he will ever leave her for me.
2006-10-04 05:15:20 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No. Why would he?
2006-10-04 05:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by JB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. He married her then you came along. If it were meant for you to be together, you would have beat her to the punch. And if he did leave her, he would do the same to you, why? If he left her for you , he will leave you for someone else. Both of you are being dishonest and you can't ever prosper in wrong doing. Someone will get hurt. A dangerous game concerning the heart. He needs to make a decision because he is stringing you along, having his cake and eating it too! With ice cream!! GO FIGURE
He and you need to be responsible and at your age I'm sure you have had plenty experiences and life lessons on responsibility and ACCOUNTABILITY. Hold him accountable. You can't have it both ways in his eyes--I wonder what his wife would say--what if the shoe was on the other foot and you were the wife???? What you do comes back to you in the same measure. Are you willing to handle that? Is he even worth that?! Think about it-if you were sure, the question would not have been asked...so you do know it's wrong and you do have doubt--or there is no need for a question to reassure you now is there?
2006-10-04 05:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Doll eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really can't see him leaving his wife, why should he after 16 months? You have given him what he wants without the need for a commitment, no need for him now. It is probably time for you to take a break from the relationship, I know easier said than done, but make him come to you with your terms if that is the route he wants to go. Divorce can be messy and expensive, if you enable him to have his happiness and his marriage, he won't change.
On the other hand, if he should ever leave his wife for you,do you really think he would/could be faithful to just 1 person? He is not only taking care of you, he is taking care of his wife. He is getting what he needs from her and what he needs from you. No guy is worth your time if he won't be with you exclusively, there is someone out there that only wants you. Find him!!!! I wish you luck and happiness.
2006-10-04 06:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by tenabutter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope they never do so don't waste your time being his woman on the side cause he's never going to leave his wife for you. He might tell you he is but it's just a front to keep you around. Even if he where to leave his wife who's to say that once he's with you that he doesn't end up cheating on you with someone else. Men enjoy the thrill of having a main woman and another woman on the side it's all fun and games for them and it's not something they will change.
2006-10-04 05:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say if he will leave his wife or not. It sounds like you like the way things are right now even though he is still married. you need to ask yourself if you can continue living like this or if you need and deserve more. I cheated on my husband for about 4 months and then I realized that we were together for the sake of being together. Now the man that I had the affair with is my husband now and we couldn't be happier. Leaving my first husband wasn't the easy especially when there are children involved. you just need to ask yourself if you are happy with the way things are and if not do something about it. good luck.
2006-10-04 05:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by little momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. And whatever he's told you about his wife it's not true. If he lives at home he's sleeping with her. You need to find someone who cares for you exclusively--you deserve it. I think when you date a married man it becomes like a competition (you have to "win" him away). Drop out of this race--& in no time you will forget about him.
Think of his wife/family. If his wife finds out about you it could destroy an entire family.
Even if this were a "rare" instance where he left his wife, what are the chances you could trust each other & make it work. Slim to none.
2006-10-04 05:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you get involved with a married man and you being okay with it. What is wrong with our people. He probably won't marry you. I'm not ttrying to be roud be most man cheat on there wives because there is something missing sexualy, but most man also don't get a divorse intill they get caught. But its not right for you too be dating a married man because you are breaking up a family. How would you feel if someone did that to you. In my opinion once a cheater always a cheater. Think about it how many man and women cheat, it's crazy. Just put your self in his wives possition.
2006-10-04 05:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What your doing is not called dating. Its called having an affair with a married man. If he is doing something like this to his wife what makes you think that he wouldn't do it to you if he ever got the opportunity. Get a little bit of self-esteem and find someone who is already single.
2006-10-04 05:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by tinar92 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say definitely no 'cause I'm not God & can't predict the future. But, I'd say your chances of being with him is absolutely "ssslllliiiiimmmm(slim). You're 52 yrs old, you shouldn't be messing up someone's marriage. Dig deep inside, would u want someone to be doing that to you? That shows you're not too mature, stop that & get someone who's going to be yours and yours alone. He has no respect for his wife or you. But, if you don't mind being disrespected, that's u.
2006-10-04 05:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by Tasha 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think he would of left her already, obviously he hasnt. he either still loves his wife or feels to guilty, or really enjoys having two woman at h is dispense. i think what you doing is wrong. imagine you had a husband that you loved and children and you thought your life was complete and your husband cheated on you? you living a lie, his living a lie. what comes around goes around. i dont believe you'll ever be happy with what you doing. if he leaves his wife for you, hed leave you for someone else too.
2006-10-04 05:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. It seems like this man just wants to have a wife at home and have you to entertain himself. I'am sorry but you are waisting your time with this man. What makes you think that if he leave his wife he is going to only stay with you?
2006-10-04 05:19:36 · answer #11 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋