I am planning on moving out of my mom's house in 3 months with my boyfriend. Lately when I think about it- I get this really sad feeling. To me, home is where my mom is and I dont know if I even want to anymore, but I am 21 and I know I'm going to have to move out sooner or later. How did you feel when you left home? - or if you havent yet are you scared to do it?
2006-10-04 05:13:00 · 8 answers · asked by nat_00420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wow, let me think if I can remember that far back, lol. Ahh to be 21 again.
Anyway, it should be both. If you weren't scared then I would be worried you didn't have a grip on reality. If you weren't excited then I would worry you were moving for the wrong reasons.
Have fun.
2006-10-04 06:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by channielynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I moved out it was fun. The good thing was I was only 15 minutes away. When I moved out of state I was scared but excited. It's not easy to move away from everything your used to but it helps you be a stronger person. Not to mention I talk to my mom more now then I did when I was at home.
2006-10-04 17:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move out if you arent 100% ready. It isnt easy out in the real world. I left at 16 due to having a baby.
2006-10-04 13:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should be both. My sister is 21 and about to get her own place. My parents are scared and she's excited. But she's not moving in with any "boyfriend". She'd get killed for that one with my parents since she's not married and shouldn't be fornicating. Good luck to you but, I wouldn't advise that you move in with him 'cause after he has tasted & having the goods whenever, what's the use buying it?
2006-10-04 12:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's both scary and exciting.
It's leaving something familiar and comfortable, for the un-known.
It's starting a new chapter in your life. You'll always have the memories of your mom, and where grew up. Take them with you.
Enjoy your new life!
2006-10-04 12:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by jt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tough choice there.am an indian girl and we have to stay in our parents house till we are married.it makes me mad.but i cant leave them.i dont have any choice.but u have, so make use of it wisely.leave home only if u want to not because u have to.
2006-10-04 12:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's both. I was terrified and excited at the same time.
2006-10-04 12:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I felt great. It's a new adventure as all new things are.
2006-10-04 12:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by AJK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋