My cousin Paige has a swimming pool and I have been over there. She often invites me when she has get togethers. Every once in a while some of the guests go topless and few guys (we are all in our 20's) have gotten nude. I actually went nude for the first time last week in front of her and some of her female friends. Is this ok? I mean should I make a big deal about it or am I making a big deal about it. Sometimes its fun just to skinny dip.
2006-10-04 04:47:36 · 18 answers · asked by Kam187 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You should only feel uncomfortable if you have reason too. If you know you are safe and in an environment that will allow this behavior then then deciding if it is "OK" is your personal choice. If you don't mind exposing your body and you are comfortable doing this then by all means go and have fun.
2006-10-04 04:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Peppino 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with skinny dipping in that group. You're all adults, and so long as there is nothing sexual going on, enjoy it. I swim topless all the time, and skinny dip very occasionally (when Mum & Dad won't find out), in our pool. Often my brother is there, and other friends both male & female. Sometimes some of the guys skinny dip, and it's cool.
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2006-10-04 23:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I "personally" wouldn't do it with or in front of my male cousin....but, I mean, if she had a problem w/it, I'm sure she may have said something to you. Did she go topless in front of you? Just come right out and ask her...and add while asking that you want to know because if it made her like REALLY uncomfortable you need to know. She IS family and you don't want to make for an "odd" situation like that if she felt uncomfortable. BUT---if she's ok, you're ok! Wait a minute....SKINNY DIPPING in DECEMBER???? HAHA- Where the H*ll do you live!?!?!??! LOL
2016-03-27 04:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no big deal. I've been nude a lot of times with my cousin and her friends. If it sexual it's completely different.
2006-10-04 09:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by ynotbeefree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think that is just a little freaky, in front of your cousin. But hey to each his own. Personally, I would not want to see any of my family members nude, or vise versa.
2006-10-04 04:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone else if comfortable topless or nude I don't see a problem, to be honest.
2006-10-04 23:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a big deal if one of you are getting turned on. If it is completely, I mean completly innocent than there is nothing wrong. Sounds like you feel guilty, like it isn't innocent.
I feel the most comfortable around my family.
2006-10-04 04:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by :o) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with it personally. It sounds like it's just a good time and no pressure for sex or anything is happening.
2006-10-04 04:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahahaha does it matter now? You've already done it? Are her friend hot? Can you control yourself (you know what I mean). I say have fun and don't pee in the pool.
2006-10-04 04:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's all in fun, so why worry?
Now, if you are getting an erection....then, it's an issue.
Wow, sounds like some good times!
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2006-10-04 04:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by Echelon Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋