2006-10-04 04:43:52 · 10 answers · asked by James B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did this a few years ago and I had a change of heart a few days later but as much as she adored me as I did her, she would never speak to me again! You can try to see if she'll get back with you...it won't be the same as it was before you broke her heart! Be prepared to accept it if she has moved on and no longer has feelings for you!! Good Luck!!
2006-10-04 04:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Damned fan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with flowers and a big apology. Then try communication. You won't get anywhere if you don't talk to her!
You need to see by talking to her if there is any chance of reconciliation. Until you do that, you won't know what your chances are.
However, I would say, before you do any of this really think of the reasons that you want her back. Is it because you miss her and you love her? Or are you just missing the relationship, and feeling empty while time takes time to heal. It's not fair to lead her on, so make sure you have good intentions before opening this can of worms!
If she's receptive, there are definitely going to be some issues. I mean, why is it, you left and broke her heart and now want back into her life? You have to be willing to admit that you caused the pain to her, and you will be in the dog house for some time.
If you are lucky, she has missed you so much, she will just take you back. But in this scenario, you are responsible to do what you can to not do it again. I would reccomend some sort of couples counseling, because whatever problems made you leave in the first place, they are still going to be there. They aren't going to go away, just because you miss her and want her back.
If she isn't receptive, well, you move on, in the best way you can.
Good luck!
2006-10-05 09:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Willalee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don' t understand why would you want her back after you broke up with her. You got what you wanted so now you realize that you let a good thing go; you want her back. Well, you have to deal with the situation. If she takes you back that's fine if not move on. But learn from your mistakes so that next time you find someone else you won't the same mistake again. Sorry to sound cold but just given you a woman's perspective.
2006-10-04 05:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by blackangel76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude jus talk to her a lot and let her know how much you love her...........explain her how both of you would feel without each other.............jus convince her that shes the perfect gal for u and u r the one for her.......... the most important thing would be to be in constant touch with her........even if she doesnt get convinced for the first time, keep tryin.........she jus needs time, coz probably she too truly loves you
2006-10-04 04:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was recent...a big apology with some effort as far as flowers, dinner, etc might help. If this has been a while, chances are she's moved on. You never know till you try.
2006-10-04 04:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and ask for a 2nd chance. It's a 50/50, so be prepared that your mistake is permanent. Much luck.
2006-10-04 04:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be romantic and ask for forgiveness!!
Or jus move on with life jus like her!
Gud luck!!
2006-10-04 04:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by znanhuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your best to be a friend. Help her out in life. If your sweet and kind enough maybe one day she will forgive you.
2006-10-04 04:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by :o) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember why you broke up with her, and re-evaluate your desire to get her back--is it because you care about her, or because of something else?
2006-10-04 04:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant. Move on cause i know she has.
2006-10-04 04:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋