2006-10-04 04:40:10 · 13 answers · asked by echolily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. People are by nature, selfish creatures and no matter how hard we try, we will inedibly hurt someone at some time or another. Plus, life is crazy. Even if the two of you are wonderfully in love something bad might happen that you have no control over (job loss, death, illness, etc).
Does this mean life sucks and relationships are horrible? In no way. In fact, having someone to lean on during these hard times is what makes these relationships so worth while.
So, if you've found your soulmate, congrats. But just know, life is not a fairy tale - there is no prince charming. But who would want a sappy prince who kisses random women in the forest anyway?? :)
2006-10-04 04:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Rainy Days and Mondays 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in my history. No relationship is smooth...or painless. There will always be bumps in the road and there will always be pangs of disappointment - at the least. The great thing about finding your soulmate is you two can work through all of these things and still want to be with each other at the end of every day.
2006-10-04 11:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The notion of "soul mates" has been around a very, very long time.
However, there are several viewpoints as to how to describe "soul mates" ... even on how to spell it! Some people spell the term as a whole word, soulmate and others, prefer to keep it as two words, soul mate.
The soul mate could be a friend, business partner, parent, child, sibling, spouse or other family member. These soul mates can be of the same or opposite sex.
Some researchers don't believe a soul mate is the ideal or one and only person in someone's life. Their definition of soul mates are people who together want to work on making their marriage or relation a great one. Their relationship feels like a natural fit, and although they need to work on their marriage or relation, it is not hard to do. When soul mates first meet, there is an immediate sense of being at ease and connected.
2006-10-04 11:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not at all...but it should. There's too many outside influences to throw speed bumps and curve balls in the way...it doesn't matter if you've found your soulmate or not...the beauty about it is knowing that you are each others kindred soul and you'll work through the chaos together.
2006-10-04 11:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Circumstances, and life in general will affect your moods and demeanor. Your soul mate will know that, and roll with it. If your relationship's strong, nothing rocks the boat
2006-10-04 23:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by persnickety1022 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all - but knowing that the person you're with will ALWAYS be there, no matter what, helps make all those troubled times go a lot smoother!!!
2006-10-04 11:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and sometimes issues prevent you from actually being with your soulmate.
2006-10-04 12:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO IT WAS A LOT OF HARD WORK, BUT NOW IT IS SMOOTH SAILING. 10 YR MARRIED, TOGETHER 12 YR.
2006-10-04 11:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I swear, if it seems too easy, drama fills in the idle times.
2006-10-04 11:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Life always has it's ups and downs. No matter who you are with.
2006-10-04 11:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by faybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋