We were together for 1 year and 6 months, broke up 3 months ago, just recently started talking again. Well he totally screwed with my head by going down memory lane, telling me he still loves me, still wants me blah blah blah. I found out last night through a mutual friend he is sleeping with my friend! My heart hurts so bad, I feel so betrayed. What do I do? Walk away or tell him I know? What would you do?
2006-10-04 04:32:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It ruined alot of friendships and what little my brother and I had left. I know the rumor is true because after I broke up with him my friend told me she liked him and shes the only MARRIED friend I know.
2006-10-04 04:47:42 · update #1
tell him what u had was good while it lasted and i'ts time for us to move on . u'll always have a special place in my heart(only say tis if you are trying to spare his feelings if not) then tell him what we had is gone and if you are telling me blah blah blah then i can only imagin what you are telling (my friend) thanks but no thanks been there and done that-------walk away you deserve better.if you settle for a nothing you'll settle for something!!!!!!!
2006-10-04 04:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so not right what the heck was he thinking I would be so hurt too I would let him know that you know the truth and tell him you could not even trust him any more and you are to hurt to take him back if that is how you feel I would but if you can't let him go if you still love him he would have to earn your trust back if that was possible i could not trust after that I had the same thing happen to my ex and he got herpes from the so called ( Friend of my ) I would never take him back I don't want the crap she gave him I am glad we had been a part for 2 years before that happened I would have killed him if he gave my that crap!!!! he tried to get me back too he realized I was the better person but as far as I am concerted he should have know before he messed up !!!!! and I left him he had been with two other girls while I was with him that is why I left but he lied about all but the one he was with when we were a part so he swears he was faithful while we were together but one of the two girl s told me the truth and the only lied to me but I had witness poof on both of them and I know about all three and not just the one that he slept with after I left him!!!!
2006-10-04 04:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by goldenchild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your ex worth having around as a friend or is it going to be a constant reminder of what was? I found that distance makes the hurt not as bad, but I still feel a little now and then, even after 5 years. As for the "friend", have a good talk with her, and decide if she is going to help you or hurt you having her around. She has to know how you are feeling right?
2006-10-04 04:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind your self that's why he is an ex. You can't do any thing to change him, but you can do a lot to change you. Don't give in don't let your self become the other woman. He needs to grow up, tell your self every day you deserve better. Walk away before it's too late, the more you stick around the more control he has and the more you will hurt.
2006-10-04 04:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by jn46036 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa..back up....you heard this from a friend...how do you know it's true? Before you make a move confront both your b/f and the girl he was supposed to be sleeping with and get your answers. If he admits its true then run, don't walk away from him.
Rumors have a funny way of happening, and you never know what people's ulterior motives are. Check it out before you possibly throw something good away. Much luck!!
2006-10-04 04:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him You Know Then Walk Away I Am Sure You Will Find Some One Else Soon!
2006-10-04 04:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by KalaGirl4257 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad, we all get screwed over at least once in our lives when an ex does this type of thing to us. The best thing to do is just walk away and never let the person back into your life. He made a fool of you once, don't let it happen again.
2006-10-04 04:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you broke up with him 3 months ago, you can NOT hold anything against him for what he has done in the past 3 months. If you want him & love him, them forgive him and forget the past because you can't change what happened, try to concentrate on you and him and today and tomorrow.
2006-10-04 04:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by CoWBoY829 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait til he called again proclaiming his love for me and then say...I'm sure you still love me, and I'm sure sleeping
Best Wishes!
2006-10-04 04:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused? How does him banging some chick while you are NOT dating him ruin anything?
Do you think he should be celebate for the rest of his life and pining for you in the dark waiting for the possiblility that you might call him?
Grow up, he moved on, that doesn't mean he doesn't still love you, but he still has needs in life. Should he stop eating because his favorite restaurant closes?
2006-10-04 07:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋