2006-10-04 04:29:49 · 30 answers · asked by tonga s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him to buy you some tampons or some other equally embarrassing thing. Any guy willing to do that must really care about you.
2006-10-04 04:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can know by the way he treats you, by the time he spends with you, by the things you do when you are together.
If he only wants sex, then he likely doesn't love you. If he talks to you and is interested in WHO you are and what YOU like and enjoy, then there's a good chance that he really is into you in a "real" way.
Be careful about wanting to move too quickly or expect too much from a new relationship. if something is in fact "real" then you will be able to feel it over time. However, If you have been in this relationship for a while and you still don't know how he feels, then it might be time to re-examine why your in this relationship and where it will take you.
Good Luck!
2006-10-04 04:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must understand that different people have different ideas of what love is. I suppose you understand that from the fact that you asked this question. But you'd be surprised of how many people that i've been the "go between" with, of whom don't really grasp how practical that concept is. One girl said to me that her bf didn't love her, and only because she was expecting things for him to say or do based on her expectations of love. When i spoke to the bf about it, I came to realize he had a different idea of love, and that, in his mind, he was indeed expressing his love. But since she didn't realize that he had his own idea of love (not her idea) he, therefore, expressed it differently. she never appreciated what he did for her. He in turned felt unappreciated, and therefore his behaviour soon became modified so as to not express his love. And they both started to complain to me.
Well to answer your question, you first might want to just get into some kind of philosophical discussion with your bf, and talk about God, ethics, beauty, whatever, and then ask what is love..Listen to his answers, and listen to what he is ACTUALLY saying NOT what he might be implying...don't dwell on it for long though, cuz if he doesn't love you he might become suspicious as to why you're asking this question. But you'll get to see his idea of what love is, and have a better idea of what he thinks and thus if his actions towards you reflect that.
Typically, if a man loves a woman, he would genuinely just want to spend time with her, and not care what activity thoat the two of you were doing. You guys could be cleaning up the house or something, and he'd just wanna be with you doing that. He'll go out of his way to serve your needs, and basically try and make you happy, in the ways he thinks you'd be happy. But remember people are different and have ideas of their own
2006-10-04 04:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by l_tone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he pay attention to you? I don't mean when you're involved in a conversation. However, if he truely pays attention to you, he should be surprising you with the little things you have mentioned, things you say that are meaningless at the time, but mealt your heart when they're presented to you. He should be willing to do just about anything for you, but he should also know when to be himself.
The only other suggestion I can make is to flat out ask him. If he hesitates, start questioning yourself about how much you love him.
Good luck and remain positive.
2006-10-04 04:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 09:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a few tests, see if he gets jealous, the things he does for u how often does he call just to talk about nothing. Just a few small gestures that might make ur heart melt!
Guys dont always like showin affection,
2006-10-04 04:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a feeling that should not be read into to deeply. Does it matter if he really loves you? I think what matters is if you love him. You cannot know others real feelings. If you have to ask this question you probably don't love yourself.
2006-10-04 04:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by phjamo2021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't ever know for sure, you just have to trust that when he says he does, he means it. Don't go looking for flaws in the relationship, if you look for them, you will find them. Instead, enjoy it as it is. If you are meant to be together forever, you will be.
2006-10-04 04:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Emma W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Compare what he says to what he does. This gives you an objective assessment of your relationship and reveals his intentions.
Have a great day!!!
2006-10-04 04:35:08 · answer #9 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You"ll Know If You Are Patient
2006-10-04 04:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by KalaGirl4257 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋