ok here's the story!
My best friend is like one of those prettiest/smart/beautiful/kind people who's confident in everything she does...but she told me she has a crush on the guy who i have a crush on too!
I've began to feel jealous but I normally wouldn't show my hidden feling to people because i dont want em' to get worried etc. She likes him alot and I don't really want to fight over a guy in out best friend relationship...u get me right?
What should i do?
Should I just tell my friend the truth? Or just ignore it and get on with life? "But i really like the guy WAYYYYY tooo much to actually push him aside!" ---> I even tried to stuff my brain with work and text book reading, mountains of books, internet games but nothing works...He keeps on appearing into my head every second which drives me crazy!!!
Everytime i see him my heart feels like it's about to explode (heart attack) u know that feeling of butterflies/heart attack/nervousness?
What shoul i do people? please help me!
2006-10-04 03:56:20 · 5 answers · asked by saiyuki c 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
You may regret it later if you don't say something to her now. You're repressing your feelings for a friendship. Obviously you value the friendship. Maybe you both can talk about it and come to an agreement that neither one of you will act on it. Or better yet, maybe you'll value this guy over your friendship with her and take your chances. Life's too short to be worrying about stepping on too many toes. You need to at least express your feelings to her, otherwise is she really that good of a friend?
2006-10-04 04:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by rowster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just keep your feeling first. after that you tell ur friend u also like that guy but not too obvious that u love that guy. then, try be friend with the guy and see if the guy interested in who and just step out if the guy don't choose you. even if u love the guy, if u know the guy don't choose u or not interested in u, u will slowly feel hurt and want to forget him and slowly u forget him...
2006-10-04 04:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing to fight about. You can both let him know you're interested, if he wants to date one of you, then the other steps out of the way.
2006-10-04 03:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya love him, but does he love you? If he loves you he won't give a damn about your pretty/smart/beautiful whatever friend, he'll have only eyes for you. If that's not the case, forget about him, you'll get over it, don't worry.
2006-10-04 04:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rastaman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him pick one. you and your friend can both tell him that you like him, and if you're lucky (really lucky, if your friend is really so wonderful), then he'll pick you. you could always kill her...j/k.
2006-10-04 04:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by answer away 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋