My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. The sex is great, and we love each other, but recently he has started saying he's "tired", and that I am "too pushy". He wants to "initiate". So I have backed off and over the last two weeks we have had sex 5 times and it was all due to "morning wood". We used to have sex at night, during the day, in the morning. I don't understand what is going on. Help.
2006-10-04 03:54:19 · 11 answers · asked by B D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is so normal. You are at the stage in your relationship (usually around 6 months; mine always starts sooner) when you are comfortable together. You don't have to impress him anymore and he doesn't have to be superman for you. Most likely, he is tired. You probably wore him out the past 5 months and he IS tired.
I have learned that this is common and if you stress too much over it you will actually cause a bigger problem. In the next few months, if you stay with him, you will fall into a pattern. Just remember, Men love patterns while women look at it like a "rut" and get pissy and bored. Be understanding that men have NO IDEA what you are thinking and can't read your mind.
2006-10-04 04:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by mollymolls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thrill of the chase and samo-samo. It is not you and it is not him, it is just life. Be mysterious and distant and you will become a challenge again. What you can't have or don't have becomes that which is desired; be it a car, truck, sex, whatever. Use your imagination and good luck.
2006-10-04 10:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but it is getting old (for him). When you bang all day, every day, you get sick of it quick. It is not at all an issue of you, but just an issue of the same damn thing. It is like an addiction, you love PBJ's and eat them for every meal, eventually you will get sick of them.
IMPORTANT: It is not your fault, he is still into you but he just needs the enticement and sexyness. Plus when we get what we want, when we want it, it is never as fun.
Take a little control.
2006-10-04 11:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he with you all day. If he goes out with out you alot it could be bacause he is cheating on you it happens he could be aplayer sorry if it is true try to find out why maby follow him check his phone for numbers call and ask people be friendly act like it would be a cool thing if they slept with your bf and they will tell you if they are or aren't hope he isnt' it could also be bacuse he is getting board.
2006-10-04 11:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The honeymoon is over hun. Time to start discovering new things to do with each other.
2006-10-04 11:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Brian C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just likes it in the am. Try being romantic but not pushy
2006-10-04 10:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by SUPERSTAR X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you dont keep them interrested maybe you need to try something new like different stuff inseated of the same old stuff.
2006-10-04 10:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks!
i have no idea why your boyfriend doesnt want to have sex with you any more. But if you really wanna know...you should talk to him about it.
2006-10-04 10:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling him how much he excites you... Play to his ego... Oh - and tease the hell out of him
2006-10-04 10:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't exciting anymore. that or he has another girlfriend to take care of those needs.
feel free to email me if you want to discuss this more.
2006-10-04 10:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋