It's been a couple years since my ex passed away, she was in an automobile accident, hit by a drunk driver, and I haven't really been able to go out, I'm finally going out this weekend to a couple of clubs with a friend of mine, I'm a little nervous, I haven't tried talking to a girl as a single man in so long, I have tons of confidence and never have had issues talking with girls in the past but I'm a little over-weight, thus very nervous and gun shy, I was hoping for advice from some girls about what the best way for me to approach someone would be, I'm not sure what I'm looking for, I've never been into random hookups but I really miss being with someone, both sexually and non-sexually. Could any of you great girls or women or ladies help me out, tell me what the best way for me to approach you would be, if you where the person I wanted to talk to at the club?
2006-10-04 03:53:51 · 5 answers · asked by John H 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just be you're self if this someone liked you she should be brave enough to tell you, don't worry, and I'm sooo sorry about you're ex. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-04 11:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. Just be yourself. You have a quality that attracted your wife to you and that will come out in you when you find a new partner. Don't get discouraged if it doesn't happen the first few times. Although I haven't had the loss you've had, getting back into the dating scene after my divorce was frightening. Just go with the flow and enjoy yourself however it comes. You deserve some happiness and it will come to you. Good luck.
2006-10-04 11:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't worry if you put on some weight that don't change who you are inside. Your ex found something special in you I'm sure someone else will too. Just take your time and get comfortable in the enviroment and be yourself. Hope this helps GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN!!
2006-10-04 11:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by tisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be direct. Come up and say hi with a smile. Don't do any cheesy pick-up lines. Once you say hi, you can usually gauge a response by the way a woman responds and work from there. Have fun and good luck!
2006-10-04 11:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by germaine_87313 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just b urself. A girl might not like ur personality but some will...
2006-10-04 11:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by sαrαн♥mıss ©υяlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋