So I've been accused a time or two of worrying and thinking about stupid stuff way too much. It's a problem that I have. I'm very loving and caring and giving, but I worry about stuff too much. When I called my b/f this morning at work, he just answered his phone "hello" and usually he says, "hi baby" or something sweet. No one was around b/c he talked to me for a bit and just sounded down and out. Nothing happened last night. We aren't fighting or anything....now I'm worried that he's got something on his mind that he's not telling me...I've emailed him to ask if he's okay and that he sounded down and that he could talk to me if he needed to. What wrong do you think???
2006-10-04 03:53:14 · 15 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, I know where your coming from... Your man will definitely let you know what is wrong when he is ready to talk about it. If you badger him about it he will more than likely clam up. Give him his space. If you must ask, do it in a way that is less offensive than "What's wrong?" Ask instead, "What's on your mind, baby?" (That one has worked well for me.) And follow up with, "I'm here if you need me." It let's him know you care, without being pushy about. He may simply need the re-assureance that you are there, but may not want to involve you in something that you cannot change. Good Luck.
2006-10-04 04:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by B D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what r u going through cuz ur parents used to care about u so much and u were under the spot light they used to tell u what to do all the time what to wear and what even to say. The whole idea that u want everything around u to be perfect and moving just like a clock not a sec forward or a sec back. Don't worry all u need is to relax and talk with someone u really trust tell him what is going on in ur life. I'm sure that u r so tensioned most of the time so don't worry try to relax go to nice places try to do crazy things and dont worry no one r watching u :) so do what ever u wanna do at any time.
dont try to chase a guy all the of the time cuz 99% don't like girls that chase them :) so try to be near him but watching not controlling :)
2006-10-04 04:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, Hobbies don't have anything to do with this. Anyway, sorry approximately that :P. Being furry is natural. Like you defined it's all genes. From your moms and dads. Every woman varies, a few have plenty of hair, a few do not. I could simply say shave it or wax. Waxing hurts slightly so I could say shave if it rather bothers you. I individually do not uncover it fallacious if a woman has hair. We are all mammals, each and every mammal has hair. And approximately the testosterone aspect. Its no longer always that. All ladies have a few testosterone and estrogen however without doubt you could have extra estrogen since your a woman. Again, all people varies. We each and every have our forte. Hope that helped :) Don't fear approximately it.
2016-08-29 08:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by polka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was right. He may be going through some things and if he is, it's up to him to decide when and if he should talk to you about it. I liked the fact that you made it known to him that you were emotionally there for him if he needs to talk. This should break the ice a little. But for now, give him some space and time. You don't want to keep bugging him. He'll come around when he's ready.
2006-10-04 04:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you not fancy sex last night, or maybe he is just feeling down!
Men can get derpessed and moody to. He might have been told off at work or someone was nasty to him. You never know !!
Just be nice to him, and dont keep asking him what is wrong he wont see the way you do, men view the same question asked over and over again as nagging and you could possible make the situation worse. Try just being supper nice and not mentioning it.
2006-10-04 04:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men dont wanna be chased. They wanna do the chasing ... all that huner gatherer stuff. Never beg never chase. Keep your distance. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Ever heard of the thrill of the chase? Once that thrill is gone.... Make HIM wonder what YOU Are thinking. Quit being such a SMOTHERER. CAll him before he gets a chance to ask you out this weekend and tell him you are going out with a bunch of g/f's this weekend. GIVE HIM SOME SPACE. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, smother him and he will wander! ( i just made that up all by myself)
2006-10-04 03:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Hillary Dillary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are worring yourself over nothing. Just for the mere fact that he did'nt call you "hi baby" does'nt mean that he is have something in his mind. He may not been in a good mood before picking your call. Except you did something to him which you did'nt want to say here.
2006-10-04 04:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give him some time. make sure he knows you're there for him, and when he is ready he will come to you. if you see that he might not wanna talk then take him somewhere quiet and ask him. if he still doesn't don't insist, give him space. im sure it's nothing to worry about.
good luck
2006-10-04 04:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by Julz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl, just wanted to let you know that i was reading your other questions and me and you have a lot in common :0) i'm glad i'm not the only person that drives themself crazy with all these thoughts , if your ever bored at work hit me up lisamaisonet@yahoo.com :0)
2006-10-04 09:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by LISA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a puppy,and use you mother instincts on it.
So its all about you. what is he thinking about you. Its dangerous because you will create a scenario in your head that's not true, and all hell will break loose.
Try channeling your investigative thoughts else ware,like politics
2006-10-04 04:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋