I am semi-in-the-closet- bisexual female. (I'm in college and experimenting right now) I have a boyfriend and I don't desire to change that. He know's I'm bi and allows me to date women. But I only date online and haven't been too successful. I'm too afraid of offending a woman in public if I come on to here and she's not gay/bi. I'm not very openly bi, so I'd like to remain discreet about it. What should I say or do?
2006-10-04 03:45:21 · 13 answers · asked by xtraluvly03 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'M IN THE SAME SITUATION RIGHT NOW. I'M HAPPILY MARRIED, BUT I THINK I'M REALLY ATTRACTED TO WOMEN MORE... THE OTHER DAY, A VERY BEAUTIFUL GIRL CAME TO ME IN THE STREET WHILE I WAS SHOPPING WITH MY SON AND TOLD ME HOW MUCH SHE LIKED ME AND ETC. I TOTALLY FREAKED OUT AND TOLD HER I'M NOT INTERESTED. AND SHE WAS SOOO BEAUTIFUL... SO DON'T DO THAT. IT'S PROBABLY BETTER TO START ANY CONVERSATION AS JUST FRIENDS AND LITTLE BY LITTLE TO FIND OUT WHETHER SHE'S ATTRACTED TO U OR NOT! ALMOST THE SAME AS WITH BOYS...:)))
2006-10-04 03:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think that women would be too offended, as long as you don't say something in an offensive way. I'm a straight women and have been approached by gay/bi women, but I've never been offended. I think if you were a guy approaching a another guy then you'd have to tread a little more carefully. Most women are a little more open than men and won't view it in a negative light. Good luck.
2006-10-04 10:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Legs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just practice approaching women that you already know are gay/bi, then you can get the feel for it without offending anyone. Most women are very open about thier sexuality so they will definetly let you know.
2006-10-04 10:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Amber S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways to approach a woman you are interested in. I would not suggest you walk up and say hey want to go to bed with me. Think of how you would like to be approached and try to do the same.
2006-10-04 10:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ben M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a gay bar in your area? i find that going to the bars on the weekend someone might come up to you or you go to them and start talking. thats a good way of meeting people especially if your looking for a female. i go to the bars just to hang out, even if i'm not looking for anyone i still enjoy the people because they are so nice there and they don't judge.
2006-10-04 10:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by LilahFairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am that way the way i did it is just say what you feel dont hold anything back. And dont hide it because there is nothing worng with it that is you no body else and if any body says any thing about it tell them that it is none of there bin
2006-10-04 10:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the wrong category to get the advice you need. But if I may comment, I think you should be open about how you see yourself, and be proud. Not hide.
2006-10-04 11:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your stuck unless you come out. Find a lesbian bar in the area and hang out there with your man.
2006-10-04 10:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a scary experiment, so be careful as to who you approach!
2006-10-04 10:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to read body language and ask questions i guess. Other than that i really dont know.
2006-10-04 10:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋