He took an online 'Are you alcoholic' test and 7-9 YES answers made you alcoholic and he answered yes to all 28 questions. What should I do?
2006-10-04 03:27:19 · 20 answers · asked by Hillary Dillary 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did not mention his age, so I'll not bring that into account with my answer, even though it could have an effect. You can not make him stop drinking, you must remember that above all else. He loves booze more than anything else in this world, including himself. You cannot change him, he has to change on his own. He won't do that until he reaches his bottom, as he defines it. It could be losing you, or it could be laying in the gutter, you can't determine that for him. Until he reaches that bottom, he will not seek help.
There are programs for co-dependents of alcoholics Al-Anon is one of the best. Leave him and go seek help for yourself. Good luck.
2006-10-04 03:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by rilindy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give him an ultimatum to go to detox and give him a chance to get sober. If he says he won't then I would run. You don't want to get into any deeper of a relationship than you already have, and definitely don't marry him. If you marry him the problem will only amplify. You're lucky you have a chance to leave without complications. There are so many other sober fish in the sea. : )
2006-10-04 03:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by newroch1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am funky and energetic....and i hate drinking! Drinking is just about the worst habit a person can have, difficult to quit. Tell him to drop excessive drinking or u will drop him.
2006-10-04 04:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by supernova 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM NOW! A drunk is all he will ever be. You will have to put up with his drinking from now on. You dont need a drunk like this, Ask him to get help from his drinking or you go in a differend direction. Drinking like he does is a bad way to live. It will kill him someday if he doesent stop. You dont need him.
2006-10-04 03:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by mswildman2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's an alcoholic, then leave. If you don't think he's an alcoholic and want to leave, then leave. Trying to find an excuse is petty. If you want to go, then go.
2006-10-04 03:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by jwb674 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look alcholics need to realize that they have a problem. if they dont then they wont get the help that they need. so you can either try to help him through this tough time or you can high tail it outta there before it gets violent, believe me it will.
2006-10-04 03:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont break up with him chick..... help him..... be there for him, he will need you, being a alcoholic is a serious thing and he needs your help, if you love him then you will help him. if after a while it seems that he is not WANTING to change then think of your future!
2006-10-04 03:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by lz_baxter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take up drinking. At least you'll one more thing in common
2006-10-04 03:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by tobcol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with him forever and ever and youll live the happiest life living with a drunk for the rest of your life thats going nowhere
2006-10-04 03:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by Rocco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum, if he continues to drink like there is no tomorrow, you will leave him.
2006-10-04 03:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋