She said it's not all the time, but still come on
2006-10-04 03:25:41 · 16 answers · asked by Honest'Lee06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She needs to leave him immediately. The harsh reality is that abusers rarely just quit being abusive. In fact, most abusers escalate over time. Now it's once and awhile, or he doesn't hit her "too hard". However, as time moves on and life gets more frustrating it usually happens more often and with greater violence. She needs to move on before her life is in danger.
It is *never* OK to beat your partner! Any who do are not worthy of a relationship.
2006-10-04 03:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
apparently those who have answered have never been in an abusive relationship.
You must tell her to leave him now. because it never gets any better.
It is hard to leave someone you love. because most women don't like being alone.. just be glad she isn't married to him , it would be even harder to leave him.. some women feel that they are failing some how to make a relationship work . depletes there self worth.. so they don't think that they can do any better than what they have.. there is as much verbal abuse to this going on as there is just the beating. the guy makes you feel worthless. and tells you that you can't do anything right.. And because you think you love them you believe it.. you need to get her some counciling also so she don't let it happen again. once she gets rid of him that is.. but it has to be her final decision to leave.
I know i have been there and done that. but i was married to my abusers.. it takes a long time or something drastic to finally get out of that relationship. so watch her and get involved if you think it is getting worse. get her out of the situation some how.
2006-10-04 03:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE SHOULD RUN AS FAST AS SHE CAN TO THE NEAREST EXIT AND NEVER LOOK BACK.
I was in an abusive relationship for over 8. years. I kept taking him back even after he had gone to prison for beating me. 3 1/2 years you need to let your friend know, that in cases of spousal abuse it rarely gets better. Usually once the man knows that he can get away with it, with no repurcussions, he'll do it over and over again . The punches will get harder, and they will happen more often. Tell your friend that if he hits her again she needs to call the police. Men who abuse women are the lowest life form on earth. And then to tell you they love you afterwards. PLease! No woman should ever stay in an abusive relationship. your friend needs to GET OUT NOW. before its too late.
2006-10-04 03:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your boyfriend is cool with it and your Ex's new lady chum is cool with it, how your chum feels approximately it does not somewhat count quantity. while this is going to become a difficulty on your courting, it is once you're able to dissolve the friendship with your ex. in my opinion I particularly have some ex's that I communicate to, and that i will see your friends point of view, yet while its no longer broke, do no longer attempt to repair it.
2016-10-18 11:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by briscoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report this to the police. Get a restraining order. Get as far away from him as possible. It will only get worse and she could wind up crippled or dead. He needs couseling or therapy at the very least. Violence is unacceptable.
2006-10-04 04:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to help her see that this is a bad situation and will/can get worse. Before it's too late, help her get away from the a**hole that thinks she's a human punching bag.
2006-10-04 03:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by tra33love 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him if he did it once he'll do it again and it will only get worse have you eva heard that song LOVE IS BLIND by EVE well if not download it... he does not love you cause love will not allow you to hit someone you care about... trust me if she let him get away with it once he will keep going back and doin it and it might juss keep gettin worse so bad that he might seriously hurt her
2006-10-04 03:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend is a idiot get over it. the beating don't hurt you. and she likes to be beat. i would tell her to stand up and ask for them more often. don't let him get by with just once and a while.
2006-10-04 03:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is she crazy! she needs to leave. My mother told me never let a man beat you, because they give you cancer. Is she scared of him, beat his *** back. I bet you he willn't fight a man.Does she have any brothers, uncles.father.
2006-10-04 04:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beats me!
2006-10-04 03:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋