I have been with my girl 4years but very attracted sexually to a girl I work with.
2006-10-04 02:59:18 · 22 answers · asked by forlife_918 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well boy then you are in trouble....just think about this you make want this girl because of the way she looks, or maybe is just lust but i know theres a bunch of feeling involve in the relationship with your girlfriend specially because you been with her for 4 years thats a lot of time dude so think about is this girl worth to be throwing away a 4 year relationship and do you really like her or is just infactuation or lust???
2006-10-04 03:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by bebamad88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt say how old you are but you arent supposed to be exclusive till after age 21 or college... you are to break 3 hearts and get heart broken 3 times before you marry. You know there are KINDERGARTENERS acting all smushy gushy... 4th graders are 'going out' and 'getting dumped' I overheard two 4th grade boys saying they just dumped their g/fs they have been with since first grade. I said oh my... where do you 'go out' with these girls? What makes you their 'boyfriend'? Well, you take em places they said You take em to the mall, to the movies and you buy em crap. So cute. As was your question. keep in mind you will always be attracted to women (all attractive women) and being in a relationship means you are faithful and act decently. If you someday marry some perfectly charming and beautiful woman who bears you many sons... youll STILL be attracted to other women. Be a man and dump the g/f, or just treat th eother gal like art... (look dont touch) Too many weirdos in the world... you go breaking too many womens hearts and trampling on their self esttem you might end up getting your bunny boiled. (The movie Fatal Attraction)
2006-10-04 10:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Hillary Dillary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 4 years you need to expect that sometimes. It's pretty normal to have a physical attraction to other females. What you have to ask yourself is this: Is the new girl worth losing the 4 years with the current girl? Honestly, I doubt she is. Most guys are attracted to other girls, but it's just because they're pretty, nothing else.
2006-10-04 10:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by james44_20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same stuation but only a 1yr relationship. I really really liked a receptionist at my job and we hit it off. Does the girl know of your gf. Is she attracted to you. Do you see it as a hookup or a relationship or both. Is she worht losing a gf of 4 YEARS. I went with the receptionist and have been with her for 1yr1/2. No complaints. You must ask yourself these questions and see if it is worth it. Good luck
2006-10-04 10:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by football23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with your girlfriend 4 years why mess things up with her just because of another sexual attraction! It would not benifit you in the long run! If you love your girlfriend then be true to her that way you are being true to yourself! If you want the other person break off with your girlfriend first-don't hurt her in such a cruel way!
2006-10-04 10:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fess up about your attraction. What attracts you about the other girl could be something (could be) something that your girl can give you but for some reason she doesn't show you that side. The more you talk, the more you know eachother. What is it about the other girl? Bet your girl can match it or top it.
Just me thinking here... Don't cheat!
2006-10-04 10:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by RUNINTLKT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. But if your heart is leading you to this other girl, break up with your girlfriend first, then go after her. Good luck.
2006-10-04 10:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then for once be a good man and break up with her before you do anything with someone else. After four years this is the least you can do for her.
2006-10-04 10:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by brunette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No problem on this one! Your SINGLE right? then go for it a little to see if there is a chance to make it with this girl in work, if not then forget it, if there IS a chance then break up with your G/F for a while, maybe you should do that anyways?
2006-10-04 10:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by distalbicept 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you don't love the girl your with, then its best that you break it off anyway. If you are in love with her, then you should control your feelings toward the other girl.
2006-10-04 10:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mujer Bonita 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋