what is the right way to get a guy and keep him, without scaring him? May it plz be a very personal answer because I need to know the mistakes of which i might have made in the past that maybe contributed in me losing the chance to be with a gr8 guy! coz maybe I had been too upfront and may have pushed them away, IPlz tell a sister what to do plz; in a good, accepteble way to get and keep the chosen one! i am beautiful and I know it but I guess its not all about that, there must be something else that I am lacking; coz if it was only beauty that counted, then I would be getting al the guys that I liked and maybe kept those i would have wanted to keep! so help guys!
2006-10-04 02:52:55 · 3 answers · asked by dobby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy. Be a guy.
Speak your mind; don't avoid talk out of fear of hurting his feelings - if it's true, men get over it fast.
Don't ask those "do these make me look fat?" questions; he either doesn't care or will tell you if you look fat (to his taste).
Share his hobbies; at least feign interest and listen. Share your hobbies or at least accept if he's not interested.
Maintain your own identity; he will want time alone or out with other men - you do the same and hang with other women.
2006-10-04 02:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i am beautiful and I know it " -???
There's your problem. Are you picking guys solely based on their looks as well because you're beautiful? Men almost universally dislike the "little princess" attitude. take it as constructive criticism not an insult: if you're in love with yourself, no one else will be. Guys may be attracted to your beauty but even men will eventually want someone who is more than skin deep.
2006-10-04 03:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Joey Jo Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"keep him tired makes him he is getting better cant you tell"
this was said by METALLICA try to make him like your own son.
2006-10-04 02:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by /\MetaLLicA/\ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋