How did you do it? I'm a christian and I have ben forever, but its just it hurts so much when you brake but with some one or they cheat on you and they end up ******* some other guy. Now this my not seem like a big deal to some people but to a christian with my beliefs it hurts so much you wanna die. For this reason it take me forever to get over any girl (years) not the fact that there having sex but the fact that that I don't know if they will. In nother words the one's that haven't had sex if we brake up she goes off and sleeps with some one and wants to get back together I won't get back together. Plus that fact that now you indeed know they had sex. It use to be that just the fact that some one had, had sex would turn me way, but I;ve gotten over that, "sort of". All of this hurts me vary much, plz help me, all take any thing.
I also have came to the idea that my be the only way that I can get over this is to just have sex, but I just can't bring my self to doing it.
2006-10-04 02:34:17 · 2 answers · asked by Gumby G 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
This one goes out to "steph w". What to? WHAT TO! I don't want to I just can't bring my self to doing it. I'm looking for a way to get over it. Plz I've tryed everything. Also steph w contact me, B). lol............
2006-10-04 02:56:12 · update #1
Ok, hon, I applaud the fact you want to wait. That takes guts and deturmination. I have decided to wait and believe me, that's disappointed quite a few of my exes (all exes because of something else, not cheating). Anyone who respects you and themselves won't cheat or try to convince you to have sex. That only shows that they only care about themselves.
There are girls out there who will respect you enough to respect the fact you want to wait. Find and date one of them instead those other girls who don't care. Don't change just to be "part of the crowd".
2006-10-04 02:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by sister steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
religion prevents u from living naturally. u have to be yourself. forget religion and find a nice girl to have sex with.
2006-10-04 02:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by july j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋