I dont like the bar scene and I havent had much luck on the internet
2006-10-04 02:23:01 · 14 answers · asked by toyloy27 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have found that a lot of men in their 40's have baggage from divorces or bad relationships and do not want a committment - mainly they are looking for f*ck buddies & there are plenty of women out there who are willing to do that, so it leaves the decent women left with slim pickings.
2006-10-04 02:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the internet it can be to dangeres . u say u dont like the bar scene then why not go to a wine bar with a friend .or go to party,s u never know that person u r looking 4 may even be living in the same street.
2006-10-04 02:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by cadillac king 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we have had lifes experiences and we know what is be expected on both sides. Once you hit the big 4 0 most mens metabolism changes and they are ready to treat women like they should be treated and not treated as a sex toy. And I'm not putting any young men down, thats just the way it is. Women are getting smarter they are grabbing all the older men they can find.
2006-10-04 02:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by rookie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dnt really no wot to say am only 19 but i dnt like bars clubs to but i just come out of a 3 year realationship an she waz the only girl av ever lied eyes on i am verry picky i waz hart broken but now am looking at allsorts of ladies ? most of them i dnt like sum of them i do sum i just met on the street cafes through friends ? do u have eny hobbies mybe tennis music dramma mybe instead of waiting for the right man comeing get up an go find him its not easy but if you want sumet u gota go get it like i said dramma clubs sports something try that go to clubs you never no wot might pop up thats all a can say really i wish you good luck xxx faff xxx u will find someone theres a person for everyone out there x and ur never to late just becosue your 40 trust me get up an go out you will see
2006-10-04 02:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by lee d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking, we are out here. Try the market, gym, join some clubs. It will happen!
Good Luck!
2006-10-04 02:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It not just the ones that are 40+ its all of them.
2006-10-04 02:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because if they're still single at the age of 40+ something is WRONG.
2006-10-04 02:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because by 40, they're all married off.
All of the rest are either divorced or single, by choice or that they're just emotionally damaged.
2006-10-04 02:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, I am 46 and very single, and no kids if that does you any good, oh and I am on west coast,
2006-10-04 02:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the answer to that question either... there seems to be a shortage for sure... if you get lucky send a few my way..ty...lmao
2006-10-04 02:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋