Lately my boyfriend thinks our relationship is hard. We've been going out for 4 months. I am a 21 year old women. my boyfriend is 28. he thinks my mom is overprotective. i am not allowed to go over his house, he's been to my house many times. there is something about it that's bugging him. he thinks i really should talk to her soon about treating me like an adult. I don't know what to say to my mom about it. Does anyone have ideas?
2006-10-04 02:20:55 · 6 answers · asked by Melanie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would talk to your mom about what her concerns are. She might distrust him for some reason that is either correct or incorrect. You can't immediately discount what your mom says, because it is the tendency of people to go into relationships with their eyes half closed. I would just ask her if there is something that causes her concern about your boyfriend. If it is purely feelings, then take it with a grain of salt. If it is really something that might be an accurate concern, then it is time to open your eyes. It would be a little frustrating to me as a boyfriend, but if I really cared about you, I would not break up over it. It could however, be used as a convenient excuse if that was what a guy wanted to do.
2006-10-04 02:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one your 21 yrs old . Your boyfriend has a right to be upset. I think its time to move out your moms house. Or sit down with your mom and explain to her your not a little girl anymore. You need to be able to make your own decisions and even though she might not want you to get hurt that your going to try to make the best decisions you possibly can. But honestly time to be out on your own or you'll never be happy
2006-10-04 09:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by WeFlyHigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 you're old enough to leave the house(not that you need to) 21 you're old enough to be drinking and you should atleast have been in college for atleast 1 year.
There is nothing wrong with living with your parents until you're done with college and can support yourself, but your parents MUST respect you as an adult and not treat you like a child. I somewhat agree with your b/f, it kind of cramps the relationship when you're having to do all of the work.
2006-10-04 09:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what ur mom is like,
she may be as what ur bf says,,,,but u also
hav to look at the possiblity so
early in the relationship he's already tryin to control you,
ur interaction with ur mom has been there
for 21 yr and he's just here for 4 mo
2006-10-04 09:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by heartofglass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you enough intelligent u are not a child .if u respect ur parents than they respect u .same thing applicable on ur bfnd.although u also become amom after time than think about it.
2006-10-04 09:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by ur_rohitfunky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a bullet, rent a gun and shoot him and get it over with,, lol
2006-10-04 09:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋