okay I've hit the two month mark in my relationship. How do I stop spending so much time w/ my bf and get back into my life?
2006-10-04 02:20:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all if you like your current relationship and how it is going, why do you want to stop hanging out with your boyfriend?
But if you really need some time apart then I suggest you reflect back on what you used to do that was really fun, start doing it and try and be open with your boyfriend about spending time away from each other and doing your own things. It is healthy to spend a certain amount of time away from each other. So use that to convince him if he needs any convincing that is.
Good luck!
2006-10-04 02:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Diem D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you need sime alone to spend with your self so that you can get your life back in order. It is okay to be in a relationship with someone you truly love, but spending too much time together could cause annoyance between the two of you! good luck
2006-10-04 09:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by lildude43277 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to reconnect with some friends you've probably been too busy to hang out with. Start working out at the gym, take up a new hobbie, pick up extra shifts at work, study more. But be careful or your bf will think you're not into him anymore. I'd say you should still see him 2 or 3 times a week
2006-10-04 09:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set time aside for both your life and your BF. You have to choose whats most important in your life, and if you can't decide, simply set a time limit for both, so you would have time to do what you like and be with whom you love. Don't spend too much time apart, you never know what could happen. If you do truly love him but just need some time to yourself, explain that to him and hopefully he will respect it and let you make your own decision.
2006-10-04 17:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by IAnswerQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set some time apart like going out seperately with friends for dinner/drinks. maybe pick up on a hobby, join a club. You do need to consider explaining the situation to your bf, it always helps to be upfront and hones. Who knows he could be experiencing the same feelings you are.
2006-10-04 09:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on ur feeling for him.if u r really irritated by him then u urself will not feel like talking to him otherwise love is wht u r facing
2006-10-04 09:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by cooltp_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him. then you will have your life back
2006-10-04 09:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married......then all time spent with him will cease
2006-10-04 09:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-10-04 09:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋