long blonde hair beautiful brown eyes loves to walk on the beach
2006-10-04 02:07:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, there are way too many possibilities to even try to discuss here. I'll try to give you some advice, though.
1) ask yourself (and answer honestly!) "Is it me or is it them? If you even think it might be you, then ask yourself why. Are you coming off as too controlling, too shy, too self involved? If you are on decent terms with any of the guys you dated before, ask them for an honest answer why things didn't work out.
2) If you are realistically sure that its not you, then maybe its the guys you date. If so, then figure out what the problem is. Maybe you are just picking guys who expect too much too soon, or guys who are too shallow, or just personality mismatches.
3) If you aren't really sure at all, then talk to other people and tell them about your dates and see if they think something went wrong or if you have just been unlucky. Or on your next date, try taking a different approach than you have been before. Please note that I'm not telling you to pretend to be someone you aren't - because that's never a good thing.
I know this is a gross oversimplification of what to do, but as I said, there are just way too many variables and unanswered questions for me to really give any better and more specific answers. Good luck to you.
2006-10-04 02:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Akane 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't play hard to get. BE hard to get. It really works. Don't have relations with them until you have done the following three things: 1) met their parents 2) dated for nine months and 3) spent two holidays with them. Believe me. Five men proposed to me.
2006-10-04 09:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by jeri l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't found the right person for you yet. Your soul-mate. Don't get discouraged. Just keep trying. There's nothing wrong with you, you just haven't found the right person yet. Or you may not be ready for a relationship right now and you just don't know that. You might need to work on yourself right now. Good Luck.
2006-10-04 09:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by teeka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They're making room for the one who'll stay. Think positively, think of it like a job that you took, will work hard at, but it's not the one most ideally suited to you . . .
2006-10-04 09:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven¸t found the right men yet.Be more picky and you have to know what you want so you will eventually stop dating jerks.Good luck!
2006-10-04 09:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by sanja77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-04 09:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
It might be because you put urself out there... Don't tell it all and try to be mysterious.. Trust me they'll come back for more
2006-10-04 09:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has 2 go through bad relationships so when they find da right 1 they know how 2 appreciate them, good luck.
2006-10-04 09:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you havent found someone compatiable to you...jus think of it as shopping for shoes....keep goin to different stores until find the right look and fit...good luck
2006-10-04 09:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because you don't make enough money at your job to support their alcohol and drug habits. Men also will dump you if your too easy (nice). If you play hard to get, they seem to stay around longer.
2006-10-04 09:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋