the man is so disgusting that you even feel shame when you get identified with him
2006-10-04 02:05:15 · 13 answers · asked by janet g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when he is at work, or at friends house, pack your stuff, and leave, that simply
2006-10-04 02:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a sad soul who finds someone so disgusting that you feel shame being identified with him.................but past that, RUN, don't walk. If you don't like him and he knows it, just break away and tell him it will NEVER work out and please don't call again. You have a right to pick your own boyfriend and should not be tortured by someone who is in love, but do be kind as he thinks he loves you. Just move on, and quickly.
2006-10-04 09:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a big problem to deal with. I'm not a marriage counsler but if you feel that way about him you aren't doing either one of you any favors by staying together. Marriage can be Hell on earth or wonderful, depending on how the couple feels. You should have seen this in him before you got married, but if your unhappy you should tell him and talk things out.
2006-10-04 09:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by rookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it that you are with this man because otherwise you wouldn't have to leave him. If he is so disgusting and shameful, what are you doing with him in the first place? Just get up & leave... pretty simple stuff! If he follows you, then you get someone bigger than him (use the law if you believe in them) to make sure he stops it.
2006-10-04 09:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-04 09:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him your'e with someone else now, and make sure you're seen with someone else.He'll get the message. If he doesn't get the message, get an injunction order out on him for harrassment.
2006-10-04 09:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by The Way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pack your bags, file for divorce (assuming your married) and move out. Regardless of whether your married or not, no one can stop you from leaving. Good luck.
2006-10-04 09:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and let him know who your feeling. Don't lead him on, you wouldn't want it done to you. Have some type of communication.
2006-10-04 09:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by teeka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Tell him you don't love him and move on. Good Luck!
2006-10-04 09:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him, tell him your not looking 4 anything right, but don't lead him on anymore
2006-10-04 09:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You leave! Its your life...and life is too short...tell him bluntly that your'e not interested...and move on. He will get over you...or at least finally move on in his own life.
2006-10-04 09:06:57 · answer #11 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋