I broke up with my boyfriend recently.He is good friends with my best friend. My bf told her to tell me that he wants us to get back together, I said I'd think about it. Well he is following her (my best friend) around,teasing her and he lifted her shirt upand saw her bra! And she enjoying the attention and laughing along.
I told another friend to tell my (ex)bf that I want us just to saty friends,because A.My mom won't let me have a bf in school because that "isn't what I go to school for" and B)he is paying my best friend attention and I think he likes her.
When my bf found out he told my best friend and she said " That Jennifer is SO jelous. Why is she worrying, I won't steal the man of her dreams." Even though he isn't the "man of my dreams." My bf then said that he'll call me and my best friend said "why bother?You know she won't pick up."THis afternoon she has been calling me every five minutes, But I'm not picking up. I just don't know what to say to her.HElp! what do i say?
2006-10-04 02:01:41 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GROW THE **** UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-04 02:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another friend (no such thing as a Best friend, as everyone is for themselves at your age) and find you a new boyfriend. MOVE ON. Let them stand in the dust as you go on and let them try to figure it all out. One day the BF will crawl back to you and beg to be friends and you tell her OK, but never trust her again. That is my best childhood advice.
2006-10-04 02:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check this. I hate high school drama but here ya go. No offense to you ladies but sheesh can you guys bag on one another. This friend of yours (seems to me) is NOT being loyal. Sure she says that she won't mess with him but tell me this. Why even bother with him? She doesn't need to unless she is subconsciously attracted to him. AND his motives. If he really wanted you back he wouldn't play games with your friend. I do understand him trying to talk your friend but that's all it should be is talk. The main goal should be YOU. It seems to me YOU are being neglected. Without being conceited put the attention back in world. Then things will start to make sense.
2006-10-04 02:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by Will Gotham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down! Your friend sounds like a back-stabbing person whom you shouldn't be friends with in the first place. If he likes her, so be it. Let them be. I would tell her you don't appreciate her acting like an immature brat to get attention, but on the other hand, you dumped him right? You shouldn't care anyways, but there's an unwritten rule that I will share with you: Carry this with you while you get older......Friends don't date other friend's ex's! It's just wrong. OKAY? So question your friends integrity ok? She doesn't sound like someone who is loyal.
2006-10-04 02:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are in high school maybe??? if you don't want to be with your ex just ignore him. yeah it is hard because you are all in school together but trust me this is just a bump in the road. you have plenty of time to worry about boys. as for your friend write her an email if you don't want to talk to her and explain how you feel. if she brushes you off then i wouldn't stay friends with her
2006-10-04 02:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mother is a smart lady, you aren't in school for that crap. But just talk to the ex bf and let him know how you feel
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2006-10-04 02:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
ask her what the heack she was thinkin its friends befor bf (or ex)
if she was a good friend she wouldnt even be hanging out wit him like she is and running her mouth just kick her ***
2006-10-04 02:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. If she was your friend she wouldn't be talking about you to anyone. She wouldn't be hanging out with your ex. If you want to go back out with him go for it. I think that you shouldn't worry about them and move on.
2006-10-04 02:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to figure out if that girl is truly your best friend or not because from the sound of it she is not.... everyone knows the rules of the ex's and that means no touching or flirting....
2006-10-04 02:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by Kristy =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex's are ex's for a reason. No matter who or what. Tell them have at it, and move on and find better.
2006-10-04 02:03:37 · answer #11 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋