I know this is weird but my 1st cousin Jessica walks around in her panties and thongs. what should I do?

Question

I really am at a loss. I moved in with my cousin Jessica who is 19 and she doesnt seem to care about being nude or semi nude in front of me. We are 1st cousins. She is an attractive young lady but very immature. I am dealing with her habits right now as we moved into an apartment together to save money. She is sweet but she often walks around in just her panties and bra and a few times she has walked into the kitchen with nothing but a thong on. She doesnt mind being nude in front of me. I told her I have weird feelings when she does that and she told me to " get over it ". She says that its natural to be unclothed at home and she knows I am not a pervert or looking at her in that kind of way. Well, I have to admit its very difficult to watch television when she has nothing but a thong on or when she bends over and her bare butt is sticking out in front of me. Its very distracting and I cant help but notice and feel guilty and shameful but I dont want to kick her out or move out either

Answer 1

This is called inappropriate behavior.She is trying to shock or provoke you.She needs mental counseling.

Answer 2

Bring over some male friends when you most expect her to be scantily clad. Do this several times, and maybe she'll start wearing some clothes. Then again, she might get off on it. Either way, treat her like your sister, and don't worry about it.

Or, you could always join her. Walk around in just your underwear or even naked and see what she does. If you can't beat them, join them!









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Answer 3

Yikes, you're in trouble, i've heard of cousins attracting, so this might be the case with her OR she maybe being truthful about how she feels, let her know again & tell her if she wore shorts & a bra it wouldn't be too bad. She might be willing to put in effort if she doesn't want you to move out.

Answer 4

This is very inappropriate and she needs to get a grip on herself, I am sure she is not so dumb that she does not realize what she is doing. I would feel uncomfortable also, any normal human being would, i would just sit her down and let her know that this is unacceptable and she needs to refrain from these behaviors or you will move or she will have to move. That is just totally unacceptable.

Answer 5

I think it's weird. I've lived in roommate situations, and normal behavior is to put a robe on before walking around the house.

Exception is if you're married or involved with the person, and you're being sexy/flirty. Otherwise, it's weird.

Answer 6

Well since she don't care about your feelings on that matter. I would talk to her about moving out, is saving money worth you living uncomfortable? Plus if she don't respect you on this, what else will she not respect.

Answer 7

That's gotta suck!

You've already spoken to her about it and she dismissed you so I'm not sure what else can be done. Tell her one more time that she's making you uncomfortable doing it and that if it continues that she'll have to find a new place.

Answer 8

Echelon has it right, even invite your Mom to come over "unexpectedly". Next time she is parading, get Mom on the phone, and get her over there. Bet the parade stops, quick.

Answer 9

Next time she is bending over walk up behind her and grab her hips and breast and hump her then maybe you will get lucky

Answer 10

ummm.. you're going to have to live with it. picture her as your sister, you wouldn't get excited over that would you? keep your pants zipped up and try not looking. think of something else, take a cold shower, wear dark glasses...ugh, I know it's difficult