should i break up with my girlfriend??

Question

ok i have a girlfriend and we have been dating for about 5 months but things are already going wrong. like she is geting mad about very stupid and small things and she says i act like shes a retard but even one of her friends said that im not doing anything wrong. and there is this party that is going on this weekend but im not going to be going cause i can't. but i dont want her to go cause when she gets drunk she usually fools around with someone. but she wont listen to me and i think she is still going to go even though i dont want her to. i have even asked her if she would go to the movies with me instead but nothing. i have talked to one of my friends about it but i would like to have some other opinions from you people. mianly girls cause i tend to trust them more.

Answer 1

Let me tell you this in every relationship both persons involved need to give 100%, if some one is giving less than that it can't work out. You are saying she fools you when she is drunk, don't excuse her, What can tell you she doesn't do it also when she's sober? If you know this already, Why haven't you left her already? If a person, who supposed to make you feel loved, makes you feel the other way around, doesn't deserves you to waste your time and energies in something that pretty deep in you you know it won't work, you are already giving too much of you for nothing, you need to make your 1st move out of this circle of mistreating, but to do that you need to open your eyes a little bit more, you know the situation, you described very well, now ask your self, Do I want to be free? Now is Up to you. Good luck.

Answer 2

if you ask her not to go to the party and do something with you instead and she still goes then yes i would say that it is time to call it quits the problems is only going to get bigger it sound like she is showing her *** to get some attention .but leave her friends out of it because an attack on her is not fair either. has she gotten drunk before and fooled around with someone if so why are you even with her now when you are in a relationship with the right person it should be enjoying and loving and understanding get out of this relationship while you can shop around a little bit there is no reason that you need to settle for less than you are happy with there are some really great girls out there and i know you will find one

Answer 3

There's your biggest mistake right there. The last sentence. You mainly trust girls more. Why? Are you that blind or just very inexperienced when it comes to dealing with the oppisite gender. Don't get me wrong...I am not bashing the ladies, but if you think they are more honest than guys you are way off course. In any event...since it is an open question (even if you prefere a females advice) I'd have to say that you need to end it with the lass. and here's why

1. She fools around when drinking. She's untrustworthy and since you guys aren't getting along all that great presently...you know what's going down. (by this remark I did not mean her....although it may be true)

2. She's going to the party knowing that you cannot go, even after you've tried talking her into going out with you. (Meaning she's self centered. Need I say more on this)

and finally

3. Cause she chooses to argue about stupid crap. 9 times out of 10 when this starts going on she is looking for a way out of the relationship but doesn't have the decency to be upfront with you about it and getting into an arguement makes it all the easier for her to go do "her thing" and not feel guilty about it.


Good luck man.

Answer 4

Well we don't know anything about this girl but from your description there's no reason you should be with her. Lets ignore her and talk about you for a sec instead.
You don't trust this girl to go to a party on her own. Doesn't matter if it's legitimate or not you can't be in a relationship with someone you feel you have to be a parent to. You're dating a girl who bangs people when she gets drunk. This alone tells me that there is no reason at your level of maturity that you should be involved in a relationship you should be dating without restrictions on your social life until you understand more about women. Here's a test of your relationship. Tell her you're really not comfortable right now with her going to this party without you and you really want to spend time with her. If she respects your wishes maybe you're reaching a reasonable maturity in your dealings with this girl, if she goes to the party you stand to lose nothing by leaving her.

Answer 5

There is no relationship without trust. She won't stay away from the party, so theres not alot you can do about it. If you don't trust her , than get away from her. I always want to be around the one I love. You've asked her to the movies, and she doesn't want to go. That's screwed. She would rather spend her time with other people, which to me means that she doesn't give a rats behind about you or your feelings. I say ask somebody else to the movies, and have a good night.

Answer 6

It looks like your girlfriend is being inconsiderate of your position and she doesn't understand you and doesn't really care for you or your feelings. Then, she's not worth it.

But if I were you, I would probably be in a dillema too. If I were you, I'm sure I really do love her very much and don't want to break up with her even though breaking up may seem like the best thing to do.

And indeed, breaking up is actually the best thing for you right now. You really love her and cares for her. But she never cares about you much, does she? I suggest that you should probably try to have a serious conversation with her first and try to sort things out. If it doesn't work out right for your relationship after that, then you should definitely break up with your girlfriend.

I hope I helped you out.

Answer 7

Sorry to be the one to tell you, but I think it's over...sounds like she is out of hand. She only says you treat her like a retard because, if she starts believing you are treating her wrong, then she won't feel so guilty for doing bad things herself, its like giving own self permission to go out and do things she shouldn't be doing. If you can't trust her to go to a party, without getting so drunk that she would actually have sex with someone else, sounds like trust issues. When a girl really likes a guy she wouldn't even want to go to a party without him, unless it was a girls night out or something. I think she is playing you, and you need to get out of it. Dump her, there are plenty of girls out there with alot more respect for you and herself....Good luck and take care!

Answer 8

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Answer 9

I'm sorry to inform you that your girlfirend is a psyco. It's time to get rid of her and find a nice girl. There are too many women out there that are worth your time to waste with someone that causes so much drama.

I knkow you said you wanted answers from the ladies. But that's just the opinion from one of the fellas.

Answer 10

Yeah you need to break up with her....she has no respect for you....cause if she did she would ditch the party and spend that night with you. Plus when she gets drunk she should only be messing around with you. Come on now think about it.