ok i have a girlfriend and we have been dating for about 5 months but things are already going wrong. like she is geting mad about very stupid and small things and she says i ack like shes a retard but even one of her friends said that im not doing anything wrong. and there is this party that is going on this weekend but im not going to be going cause i can't. but i dont want her to go cause when she gets drunk she usually fools around with someone. but she wont listen to me and i think she is still going to go even though i dont want her to. i have even asked her if she would go to the movies with me instead but nothing. i have talked to one of my friends about it but i would like to have some other opinions from you people. mianly girls cause i tend to trust them more.
2006-10-04 01:54:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just leave her if she is getting mad withing 5 months she will be a great burden to you in the later years. Nagging girls are like cancer and getting rid of them is the only remedy.
2006-10-04 01:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to see if there is something else bothering her. It might be she is getting irritated at something else going on in her life and is taking it out on you. Be really concerned. If that is not it, then break it off. There is no sense in having a relationship with someone you cannot trust. Tell her you like her but that you don't think things are going well. Maybe she just needs some space.
2006-10-04 08:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by km 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a couple of issues confused and tangled up here.
1. If you are unable to go to a party, it does not automatically follow that your girlfriend is not allowed to go either. She is your girlfriend, not your slave.
2. If you cannot trust your girlfriend to attend a party without cheating on you, why are you even asking if you should break up with her? Grow a spine.
2006-10-04 08:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-04 08:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by d d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your girlfriend?Do you love her?Does she love you?If so,there doesn't seem to be any trust here.You are worried about her and she's letting you worry.Its not even about keeping you jealous and attentive.She doen't care!If its something else bothering her,like a family problem,she SHOULD come to you and tell you.And even if she can't considering how concerned you are about her,you should probably have sensed something by now!Cheers,darling but I think you should tell her the party's over!
2006-10-04 09:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Flame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say keep trying to get her to go out with you this weekend,and if she goes off to the party anyway well break it off,that's a deal breaker and if the person you care so much about doesn't respect you by drinking and making out with other guys then you deserve better. but if she doesn't then take her someplace nice and remember that you cant control her it is ok to go out sometimes with the girls,and as a couple and its ok for you to go out by yourself as well you dont want to start a relationship without trust.
2006-10-04 08:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by my space 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE REASONG SHE'S ACTING THAT WEIRD AND HURTS U IGHT BE THAT SHE LIKES SOMEONE ELSE. I'M SORRY TO SAY THAT, BUT THAT'S WHAT I WAS DOING IN THAT SITUATION WHILE I WAS A TEENAGER. TALK TO HER ABOUT THAT- A GOOD AND SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE BASED ON HONESTY AND COMUNNICATION. AND UR TOGETHER FOR 5 MONTHS- UR A TEAM AND U SHOULD DEAL WITH UR PROBLEMS AS A TEAM. IF SHE REALLY LOVES U, SHE WILL CHANGE HER ATTITUDE TOWARDS U AND WILL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO NOT HURT U.
2006-10-04 08:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her if i was going to s party and i have ben with someone for 6 months it would not work out me and my boyfriend said we would not do things like that it would just breakus up and he loves me so that is why he does not do that and i love hem that is why i don't do it to hem it seems like she does not want to be with you when you go to a party with out your boy friiend or girl friend you are looking for some one els that is why people go to parties with out your boy friend or girlfriend good luck cause you are gone a need it to make it happen
2006-10-04 09:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what break it off with her she obviously does not appreciate a nice guy like you. She sounds like she could be a s---t. And you are better offf without her. Dump her and run. You will find some one so much better for you .Good luck i hope this helps.
2006-10-04 08:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I would Get rid of her asap I was in a relationship like yours onetime and it just do'nt work when they get upset over the stupid stuff
2006-10-04 09:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋