I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and im also two years older than him. im a sophmore in college and he is a senior in high school... He was very overprotective until he started his senior year... now he tell me to go out with my girlfriends every weekend because he want to hang out with his friends and go out... i ask him all the time if he want to take a break until he graduates but he always says no because he loves me to much... what should i think of this everyone in my family is basically counting down until the day he dumps me.... it really sucks because when i was a senior in high school he didnt give me the freedom i wanted and i ended up telling him that we needed a break and it was only for two months.... Is he trying to get revenge on me? should i just ignore the changes? or should i just count down until the day he dumps me???
2006-10-04 01:50:06 · 10 answers · asked by Kristy =] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good luck with this one. i was married as a senior. married for 13 years before i wanted to believe that he was treating me like a puppet and not his partner in life. trying to be the good wife, i suppose. no one can truly make your mind up for you....follow your gut instincts........
2006-10-04 02:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in college and those are supposed to be the best days of your life. That is really when you find yourself. You should be going out with your friends and not worrying about him. It sounds like he is the one with the issues, so no you should not sit around and wait for him to dump you, that is giving him the upper hand in the relationship. You need to sit back and think about if he really is the right one for you. You sound like you know what you want to do in life and he sounds like an ***. Don't ignore the changes. You just need your own space to do what you need to do. Chances are, he is not the right one for you. Sure you dated for three years, but was it a good three years? Good enough to let a man tell you what you can and can't do? You need to gather your strength and send him on his way. It will only get worse.
2006-10-04 08:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by 81% Naughty, 19% Nice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-04 08:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by d d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are and have been all along at different stages of maturity, girls always are more advanced emotionally than guys. Look at it as a stage he's going thru, like your kid being in the "terrible twos." If you can stand it and want to continue then by all means do, by being patient and continuing to work at the relationship.
2006-10-04 08:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him find someone more mature than a high school senior also sounds like he recently began to drive maybe he was using u for that
2006-10-04 08:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by admiral31986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never leave a person if you still love them because you will be waisting your time and you will probably go back to that person..
rather find something else to do and ignore him he will come around after trust me boys are fools when it come to being loved and ignored
2006-10-04 08:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe before any of these things happens to you, dumping him would be okay and this will solve all issues.
2006-10-04 08:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy a break! he is at that age, trust me it'll pass
2006-10-04 08:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by Charlie Mejia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait and wonder...go live ur life...ur young he aint the only guy in the world. u may even find someone better for you than him.
2006-10-04 09:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he realized that he was way too overprotective before and he is trying to let you breathe
2006-10-04 08:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by Timmy's girl!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋