Well you get the idea. Everything anybody around her says is wrong, no matter what, I like something she hates it. I agree with her on something she changes her mind. I'm an experienced mother of 2, and she has two children, but will not leave them with me or my husband or her parent inlaws or even her own parents to be watched. She says we have no idea how to look after them. We recently builta new home and she hasn't even seen it. Its very nice 3 bedroom 2 bathroom out in the country and she says its a terrible place four children and will not come out or let my husband's brother come out alone or with the children. She never used to be like this until I married into the family. She had never met me before and I've done everything I can to be nice to her. She won't even get together with the family for holidays. She just sits in her bedroom the entire day, even if its at her house. its starting to take a real toll on the family not being able to see eachother. Holidays r coming HELP!
2006-10-04 01:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by masterdvrsgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'll handle yours if you handle mine! lol. Seriously my sis-in-law is a bi*** too and after years of trying to be her friend I finally said screw it and had to realize she's a spoiled brat and when the attention is anywhere but on her she's jealous. I would tell the family that since you guys just built a new home you'd like to have the holidays at your house. If she comes GREAT if not...well no love lost right?
2006-10-04 05:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by skhoury28nails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family should have an intervention with her. She really does have issues. Maybe she is insecure because of you. Maybe she thinks your good looking and doesn't want her husband around, although, you are with his brother. But she sounds like a wierdo. Maybe someone should talk to her husband. For family events, he should come whether or not she wants to. And since their his kids too, he should take them with him. If she has a problem, she can sulk at home, alone, about them.
2006-10-04 08:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why care? She doesn't sound like the type of person anyone with any sense would care to have around. Make the family invitation as usual and if she doesn't show...who cares. One less gift or more to purchase for the holiday.
Why can't you people look on the positive side of this. Always crying about the down side. Try making lemonade with your lemons.
2006-10-04 09:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds likes she's a drama queen ... your brother needs to put his foot down and tell her that he wants to spend time with the family, with or without her ... i know someone like her and there really isn't much you can do they thrive off of making other people miserable. and the country is the better place to raise children, lots of open space & fresh air!! congrats on your new home!!
2006-10-04 09:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she actin like that just leave it alone, cause later in life she is gonna want somebody to watch her kids and she gonna try to come to u, so I would just leave it alone and go do what i got to do, cause if she dont want u watching her kids then stop wasting time with her.
2006-10-04 08:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by peanut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so concerned. She does not want to mix with you and is avoiding you just take this for granted and learn to live happily.
2006-10-04 08:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nice to her. Get on with your own life, assume she's doing the same.
2006-10-04 08:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about her she is jelouse,,, how can she say is aterrible place,,,secound of all she is saing that you dont know how to raise you kids ,,,, if a kid is going to be bad then no matter what they stii are comming out bad,,,
2006-10-04 08:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of her
2006-10-04 08:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by johnno K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋