Everytime I ask her what's she thinking about or whats so funny (when she laughs out of no where) she never tells me. No matter how much I beg. For example, last night. She put her cell phone down and said, " I'm so excited!" & I said for what and she said nothing. I h8 this! Should I do the same? Or let her go because she's not open with me? Help.
2006-10-04 01:36:08 · 9 answers · asked by NVR UNDRESTM8 KARMA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Was there ever a time that she has told you something and you started to insinuate that she was doing something wrong, that she wasn't? and she was just telling you. She probably feels that if she tells you something you are going to turn it around on her. Two could play that game too. Act like her. But that is definitely shady.
2006-10-04 01:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that it's really buggin you and that you just want to be apart of her life and because she's not, it's causing doubts in your mind about the relationship. That should spark a conversation about it.
If she still does it, I'd go out of my way to do it too to show her what she's been doing all along.
If that doesn't work, then leave her. You can't be wasting your time playing little games like that. You're in it for the whole thing, not just bits and pieces.
2006-10-04 08:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, now let me see.....you have answered your questions yourself. A big mistake we make is that we forget that a boyfriend or girlfriend is supposed to be a friend.
Would a friend ignore your question? Would a friend ignore your requests? NO they wouldn't. There is your answer. You should treat your love as you would a friend. This girl is not respecting you..and yes. She most certainly is playing games and that is not a good plan for any relationship.
You should walk away. It is amazing what the silence can tell her.
2006-10-04 08:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about suspicious, but she sure doesn't want to get close up and personal with you. She lets you in on an emotion, then won't share with you, what is that? I would say she's just not feeling that close to you and doesn't want to.
2006-10-04 08:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are just that way, yet it is some type of personality profile they have with themselves which is disgusting in nature. Lots of women and girls profile this way. It's a game slang. It will certainly make you feel that way but you cannot cope with it and I do not blame you, just find someone else.
2006-10-04 08:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds silly on her part & I think you need to look at what you guys got if your not able to share things together like something as simple as that.
2006-10-04 08:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not necessarally that you can't trust her, but if you want/need someone who is more open then you need to tell her that DIRECTLY. If she can't or won't open up, you two might just not be right for each other.
2006-10-04 08:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by danl747 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she allowed to breathe without explaining herself to you?
Get a life!
2006-10-04 08:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
do the same
2006-10-04 08:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋