ok heres the story. So this school year ive tried to turn my life around (more cleancut, nicer, better grades) and so far been doing ok. now, im a junior in high school, and have recently been hanging out with one of my good friends girlfriend not because i wanna date her..we are good friends, the thing is, her lil sis and friends are now at school as freshman. so im hanging out with all them too now. so things move along and on comes the first dance after a football game at the school. the game was fun (we won woot!) and again i hung out with the same people. now at the dance there were only 3 "slow" songs and at this point, one of my friends has told the group i liked one of the girls in our group. so when the first slow song came, i asked her to dance, we did. yay. so the last dance we danced as well, and i asked her to homecoming with me. she said someone already asked her but wasnt sure if she would go with that person, but would go with me if she didnt go with the other person...
2006-10-04 01:27:08 · 4 answers · asked by kingfoot7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, her friend has emailed me back after i asked some questions and she said "she is already going to homecoming with someone...And why do you like her anyway? You don't even know her! lol. Sorry, she keeps telling me that she wants someone her own age."
also "Haha. It's okay. She is definitely going with someone else, he asked her yesterday. I was there. Lol. But She didn't say "I DON'T LIKE
im so confused...should i step the girl aside and talk to her about everything and if she does say something close to this should I be like "you know what I respect your decision, and I know you like what you like so can we still be friends and hang out and stuff because I would hate to loose a potentially great friend such as yourself" also, the girl who sent me this cant like me..shes been going out with the same guy for a couple years. and so yeah thats smart reasoning really /sarcasm off.
2006-10-04 01:27:32 · update #1
yes I'm in a lit. class, we have to be to graduate. but the thing is, I type as if I'm talking to my friends most the time. so sorry if it was long or complicated to understand, I'm not exactly writing a paper here, and not exactly in the mood to make everything correct and things like that. -_-
2006-10-04 02:04:15 · update #2
Talk to her, tell her you like her. If she says yes then date, if she says no then do as planned and tell her you can still hang out despite... but don't automatically believe what her friend says. It's always better to get first hand information.
Do you do English Lit? So many words...
2006-10-04 01:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls have a hard time of finding nice ways to turn guys down so go find yourself another date for homecoming.. the rest of it is teenage girl jibber jabber that doesn't make sense so just ignore it, it's stupid
2006-10-04 08:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes. Soon, it won't matter. Anyway, concentrate on your work. Be firends with the girl and just have fun!!
2006-10-04 08:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by jrhod263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to your original idea - concentrate on your studies.
2006-10-04 08:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋