Alryt , my bestfriend and i are into a funny conversation, until we end up discussing his current lovelife. he said, by the time he get married, he should have mastered all programming codes ( coz he's a web pro ) and i just said " just dont forget to invite me when you and ur girl get married, or even if you two didnt make it, just with any girl, you have to make me the Maid of honor! " ( though it was kinda hard saying that coz i harbour secret feelings for him )And i was kinda laughin' all the way, and he said " yeah, even if it was you whom i'll be marrying ". I was shocked for a moment and i hurriedly said " That's way too impossible, we're friends and we can never go beyond that, we have to treasure this friendship ". And he said "...yeah..ur ryt, it's really impossible ".. I dont know if how i reacted was right. I just wanna move away from the thought that we can be more than bein' friends when i know for a fact that his presently into a relationship. How can i deal with this?
2006-10-04 00:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by joan mae l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a lot of instances that i felt like he was actually into me, like giving me advices to stop dating other guys coz there are lots of players out there and so on. But i refused to give so much meaning to it coz he might just be concerned as a friend. Aside from the fact that he's into a relationship.And according to him, he love his girl so much. hmm... T_T
2006-10-04 16:26:59 · update #1
Have you seen my best friend's wedding!
2006-10-04 00:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by toietmoi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, for any guy to make a joking comment like that means it's true. This is because while joking he can change it to be ya I was just kidding or I really have feeling for you based on your response. You are not totally doomed. What you can now do is hang out with him at night. Look a little more sexy/dressed up than normal. Perhaps stargaze and maybe get closer "accidentally" haha and then hopefully your eyes will meet and the sparks will fly. You could also be chilling with him at night and then when in a deep convo say, "maybe there is a possibility we might end up together. No one knows what the universe/stars has in store for them." Good Luck
2006-10-04 08:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really tricky..It kinda happen to me once..I had the same situation before..but can't you tell that maybe in some instances that he already like or better yet loves you now??..like more than friendship?..even if the guy is in the relationship,it's not impossible that HE MAY NOT FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU..especially if you are together everytime or you share problems..I think that he is starting to like you that is now "beyond the friendship"..it's just that he is also scred for what he is feeling that maybe your friendship will now go down to the drain..you know the feeling..just play it cool..it will turn it to be just fine..and oh!by the way..always be there when he needs you and stay as beautiul!!!..we may never know what will happen next..goodluck!
*wink*
2006-10-04 07:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by kAyXeE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That may have been a way of letting you know that he would like you to be more than a friend in his life. Since he is in a relationship, though, you are going to have to leave it at friendship and maybe when they break up you let him know how you feel and given that he feels the same, it will be all good...
Good luck.
2006-10-04 08:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were foolish to have said
" That's way too impossible, we're friends and we can never go beyond that, we have to treasure this friendship "
When that was not what you meant.
He was propably being really brave, saying that at all.
You secretly like him?? Why didn't you tell him that??
Go talk to him asap.
2006-10-04 07:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by tui 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This thought: He may be THE ONE.
Declare your feelings for him. Take a chance on love.
My fingers are crossed for you.
2006-10-04 07:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by martino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything a man says as a joke is true at the time in my opinion. thats the case with me anyway
2006-10-04 07:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by survival_paul 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"Many thruths are said in jest!" Jokes reflect our innermost thoughts that's why they are funny.
2006-10-04 07:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jokes are half meant when they make you feel something weired
2006-10-04 07:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by MADenigma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them a stunner
2006-10-04 07:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Takafushi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋