Alright I have a roomate that has two little girls who are alright. Here is the problem her brother whom I will not allow her to tell where I live has been in some bad trouble lately and now it is affecting me mentally. Her mother is totally neurotic and blames her for everything including getting her brother started on drugs, he is the oldest it is the other way around. He does not know where I live and I want to keep it that way because he is such bad news now I am having nighmares about him being so bad and coming to my house. Here is the truth about what really happened with him. Last week his mom opened his bedroom door and found him laid up with a girl, she got mad and told him to take it under someone elses roof. He took her home he says and three days later she was found in a dumpster dead. It is giving me nightmares I have only met him once and he is a crack head. I am 46 and am still scared to death of him finding out where I live and coming here. Can U help me out?
2006-10-04 00:32:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I know why I am afraid of him but my stomach is literally hurting to the point that I want to cry or throw up one or the other. I dreamed that he got in my house and went to knock out my grandbaby with a baseball bat. I took the blow to the arm, i don't remember if he broke it of not. I told her to call the police and she let it ring and laughed at me in this dream saying that I am to whiney. Then she left and his new girlfriend was in my living room fixing a tire that he was demanding her to fix. She told me I was a ***** and grabbed the tire iron and hit me with it. Again aiming for my grandbaby but I took the brunt My grandson will not be here until late November. Why am I having nightmares like this? I had a bad one last night too, now I wake up this morning to a Thunderstorm. How much more creapy can it get for me? I am already stressed over losing my best friend to kidney problems in September, and literally almost can't sleep at all. Can anyone help me out?
2006-10-04 00:42:24 · update #1
OK crackheads rarely kill. they are not that organized and it does not fit in with there plan, but it does happen. If he is on ice the story changes a bit. I think you are reasonably safe, but you should go to the police and tell them what you know. This action will at least get the police to pick him up and question him. This will give you 24 hours of sleep. I beleive the woman may have been killed by a John.
Please let me know how this turns out.
2006-10-04 00:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by En1gma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here is the thing...was this girl missing for 3 days or did she actually make it home? if she wasnt missing then he very well could have nothing to do with it. If he is as bad as you say he is, then think of the type of girl she must be to get involved with him in the first place. Second, why would you have this girl as a roommate in the first place if you know the family history and drugs and such are involved? Last of all, I wouldnt worry so much about it. Things happen because they are meant ot happen. Dreams usually dont mean anything. My husband had a dream last week that I left him for another guy. Did I?...no and I would never even consider it. My mom told me she had a dream so guy was trying to kill her and some other girl...did it happen?...no. And if this guy really wants to hurt you are your grandson then he would find a way to find you and do it. He doesnt need your address. Just stop worrying and take some sleeping pills if you are having trouble getting a good nigths rest.
2006-10-04 02:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, get to a councelor fast. Secondly, go down to the police station and ask what kind of protection they can offer you. And finally, go stay someplace where you feel safe. You cant go on living this way in fear. The fact that you know so much about what is going on could be enough for the police to know as well. If worse comes to worse, go stay at a local shelter. You will have 100% protection there until you can get to a safe place to live and they will have all the resources to help you out. My prayers are with you.
2006-10-04 00:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other than moving far away, or moving in with your brothers or something, there's nothing anyone can do. You can go to the call the police and speak to the detective anonymously investigating the death and tell him everything you know,, his friends names,, his character, ect. you can get the detective's name from the local police dept. Call from a bulk store purchased cell phone. They are untraceable.
2006-10-04 00:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where exactly do you fit into all of this? Why are you so scared of the brother of your room mate? It sounds to me you have some set up going on over there. Where do the little girls fit into all of this? Why did you mention them? It sounds as if you are in need of a little help.
2006-10-04 00:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by rondavous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I cannot help as this sounds like a legal- police matter.
2006-10-04 00:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have anything to truly be worried about unless he has something against you.
2006-10-04 01:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tact is highly overrated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋