buhu.its been two months since he last broke up with me just because of slight differences between us though we never ever fought with each other. He said that we could still be friends and that hes not totally cutting our ties. But for these past two months, he never really texted me anything at all.he just replies whenever i text him once a week asking him if we could eat pizza one time and just be friends.Our plans were always postponed. first, it was because he was really feeling weak.2nd because he had a family gathering.third, when he asked me but i turned him down because the time was too late. fourth because a very strong storm struck my country.All missed chances every weekend!But honestly i invited him because i just wanted to see him and the truth is i still want to work things between us.How can i win him back?
2006-10-04 00:05:01 · 7 answers · asked by hashbrownies 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he doesn't wanna come back then nothing can bring him back...BUT...if you are the kind of person who regrets for NOT doing something then I say think aloud when you are with him, show him your real feelings, try your best to win his heart back...if you don't make it just move on feeling good and proud of yourself for you did everything you could and did not ignore your heart's words....
2006-10-04 00:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
" Your boyfriend did you a favor by breaking up with you. You are wasting precious time on a relationship that will never be healthy. I know that's difficult to hear when you've been with someone for a long time, but if he is not treating you well, you don't need him. Plain and simple. Plus, if he uses drugs, they are his obsession. Anything that gets in the way of that "romance" will be brutally pushed aside.
First, ask yourself why you got drawn into a dysfunctional relationship. Go deep into your heart and find out if you think you deserve better. Also, ask yourself why you stayed in the relationship for so long. Are you afraid of losing him, or of being alone? These are hard questions, but until you feel worthy of someone who will treat you well, you will only attract people who treat you badly. And the most important thing you can do is love yourself, get to know yourself and respect yourself! Then and only then will you be ready for a relationship. I cannot say this enough -- don't try to persuade him to change his mind, and don't take him back if he comes to you. As history has proven, the two of you together is a lose-lose proposition. "
2006-10-04 07:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first stop calling him every day or weekly , & stop txting himm because guys as general get enough bored who fell in deep love with them i know it's weird but that how it is , they like hard to get girl's like so show first that you can go along without him don't put yourself down wait for one month & look the result , if he asked about you that means he really love you & you two have a chance but if not that means he fell for another girl & hide it from you & you should move on.. sorry to tell you that but it's advice from one sister who is concern about you ...because i have been in that situation
2006-10-04 07:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by mes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he wants u back, but hes scared that if u went as just "friends" then he might mess up everything with u, find out why he broke up with u, and just give him time and just show him that u still want him
2006-10-04 07:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by countryman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not 'win' anyone 'back' because your ex is an individual, and NOT your personal possession.
2006-10-04 07:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over, accept it. He is dodging you.
2006-10-04 07:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by shardf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can tell him how you feel. i brought my ex flowers.
2006-10-04 07:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by jh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋