To start off until recently I have not had sex in 2 years which was a chose I made a long time ago.I had been in really ****** up relationships ,whiich ended with me getting hurt..Well I dated this girl and I felt a real connection to her,enough of a connection to have sex with her.Right after we had sex we were lieing together,and I got this sickening in my stomach that I felt she was going to leave me.So I asked her "You aren't going to talk to me after this night are you?"...and told her also I felt used for sex.She said it wasnt true...but I was very depressed about the situation....she went to kiss me goodnight but I turned away.I know I made a mistake...and I admitted to it.I care for this girl deeply and now she wants nothing to do with me.How do I get her back?Is it even possible?
2006-10-03 23:52:46 · 8 answers · asked by The_Next_Level 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude. i'm going to be blunt. you messed up right there. you were insecure about yourself AFTER YOU HAD SEX WITH HER and the wuss came out when you asked her "you aren't going to talk to me after this night are you?" then, after she said it's "untrue", you turned away from a goodnght kiss. you made a mistake and you admitted to it. now learn from this mistake.
the best thing for you to do is to grow some balls and move on. learn from your mistakes and move on. it's not worth the time and effort to try to get her back. believe me, i rode the same boat you're on before. it's going to take a while, but you'll bump into another chick someday (when you least expect it).
2006-10-04 00:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by battousai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-04 06:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no shes not coming back,and you arent ready for a relationship yet,you got some healing to go dont impose more pain on your life by beating yourself up or being angry at her.love yourself feel confident and happy with who you are and then give it time and you will attract someone that wants what you want,but if your in angst and worried after having sex because your afraid of being hurt again its not her its you and you have to fix that within yourself
2006-10-04 07:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by seth s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean you felt used for sex.....like you were doing her a favor....you both wanted it!.....Now either , she just wanted sex, and thats it ,or the sex wasn't that good......If you way them both out, I would suspect the sex wasn't that good, if it was she'd be there, plus the fact your a little weird....be a man.....a woman wants a man...someone strong not a weak sypathetic girlyman....man- up and quit being a boy.....take control and live!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-04 07:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not have sex for 2 years... so are you saying you have sex all the time before those 2 years.... damn, you lucky bastard. what are you complaining about? haha lol, jk
2006-10-04 06:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a supporting kiss
2006-10-04 07:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by george grohan mendal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you lost her? start with a new love and don't repeat your mistake
2006-10-04 06:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by NAUDIA B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest tell her how you feel
2006-10-04 06:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋