What doo I do? I need help how do I find a girl that doesn't always think of me as another freind I try to flirt with them but I think I just not good what do you think I should do.
2006-10-03 23:48:31 · 23 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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What do I do? I need help how do I find a girl that doesn't always think of me as another friend I try to flirt with them but I think I am just not good what do you think I should do.
2006-10-04 23:27:30 · update #1
for those who know I spelled wrong
2006-10-04 23:28:38 · update #2
be honest and maybe you can find friends that like what you do
2006-10-03 23:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should relax a little sweetie you're coming across as a little desperate settle down, ok now find your local "gay" bar (hate that term but it describes it) wether its a club or a pub if you dont know of any ask around if there's a drag night its usually a big give away dress to your sexiest and go out with a few of your guy friends for support if you take a girlfriend you may not get as noticed as you would like one girl with many guys gives the impression that hey she's single but be prepared for the guys taking an interest in your mates too dance your heart out and if there's a karaoke give it a bash! this'll get you the attention after that it's up to you if the interest is sexual at first try to keep the flame by trying new ways of expressing yourself send saucy texts and pics
its not much but hope it helps
best of luck sweetie
2006-10-04 07:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kalina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?? if your old enough, go to a lesbian bar. just be careful because picking up people from bars can be dangerous.
do you let the girls your interested in know that your gay?? if they don't know then they wouldn't even think of being interested in you as anything other that a friend. and even if they do know, some will still not be interested because not all girls are gay.
if your underage for going out you need to let them know your gay. then when you ask someone to go out they will know it's more than a friend thing and will be able to make a decision based on that.
if your afraid to let people know your gay start out by telling a friend. friends are very helpful with finding dates. lol.
good luck.
Devora??? you also made some mistakes with your spelling. you know that whole practice what you preach saying???? don't point out someone else,s faults till you look at your own...
2006-10-04 07:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are flirting with the wrong girls. Have you come out to your friends and family? Perhaps you need to find out about clubs near you where you will find the girls to flirt with, just be honest and accepting of who you are.
Sorry may not be helpful, I am presuming you are gay, I do not know much about that topic, but I am sure flirting is flirting, gay or straight.
Good luck
2006-10-04 06:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are flirting with someone who is not like you, then of course, they are not going to be into that or you. Go to a "Lesbian" bar or something. I am not into your thing either, so sorry, don't know what to tell you. But I do think that you will not have any luck just off the street. Why not go for boys, and you will get luckier, I bet. They are the "real" thing.
2006-10-04 06:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i'm not gay but i have several friends who are and they have a similar problem. One thing we do Is go on nights out to gay bars in our area and have a good time, if they fancy going on the pull they do, if they just wanna chat they chat. Always a good atmosphere :)
2006-10-07 16:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya Don't worry about the people that have give you silly answers, I don't think they think that you are serious. What i would do is go to clubs where all girls hang out and i bet it won't be to long before you are hit on.
2006-10-04 06:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a lesbian right? Sorry honey I can't be much help in that department. If it was an issue concerning men, then yes. I hope you find some help from the others. Good luck
2006-10-04 06:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sign yourself up at a dating agency. or find one online. The girls who have signed up are not looking for a friend, but a hot date.
2006-10-04 06:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by rubyflats 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell them from the start what you want out of the relationship whether its friendship or more
2006-10-04 07:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insecurities are probably coming to the forefront.
If you are not comfortable with yourself, then i am afraid it is going to show.
You may be need to go out to where 'like minded' people are.
2006-10-04 07:11:07 · answer #11 · answered by classychick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋