our wedding date is january 12th.we were together sexually for the first time last night.michael wanted to save that for our wedding night but i wanted to be with him atleast once.when i saw the size of his penis erection i was stunned. his erection was the same size as my thumb. he asked me to take pictures of him hard, so i did with my cell.then he put me on the floor and without any forplay he just slid himself inside of me and thrusted really fast 5 times before he came.WOW was i disapointed! i understand it was our first time and michael was very excited but when you see these pictures of his tiny erection you might sympathyze with me. one picture is worth a thousand words.
2006-10-03 22:34:50 · 21 answers · asked by stacy b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now you know why he wanted to wait till "after' the wedding ..at least now you know..call off the wedding..
2006-10-03 22:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Honey you poor thing, that's really horrible and i totally sympathise. LEAVE, i mean even that 5 thrust thang is totally uncool. O.k if leavings not an option and you do love him then he should respect that you need "more" to keep you satisfied, its a whole life together and stitches heal...maybe you could suggest an enlargement as a wedding gift, and get him frozen down to make sure you have back up. I don't know the risks involved but just talk about how "Happy, huge, masculine and empowering him having a big one is for you both. How you cant wait to make passionate love every day when your married, But the last effort was a little "Uninspiring" Be honest, but extra careful and ultra diplomatic about how you approach it, this is a most upsetting topic of manhood. Remember u have a right to be happy, and if he really wants to be with u, he should do anything to keep you.
2006-10-03 22:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by kathycracksit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the reason that most marketing companies use the selling technique of 'try before you buy'. Who wants to be disappointed on their wedding night with cocktail frankfurt instead of a 10 inch dog. Might I suggest that you take the merchandise for several further test drives some time soon before you pass final judgement. But if you are truly unhappy it is better to at least talk about it before signing on the dotted line.
2006-10-03 22:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry Lady. Where is a will there is a hope. Now techonology has gone very developed. So if ur hubby penis's size (when it get erected) is small then u can consult sexologist in ur nearby hospital. That sexologist will recommend ur hubby to have penis operation by which his penis size will increase to some extent which can be satisfiying for u.
Just contact ur near by hospital.
2006-10-04 01:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why it is a disaster to wait until your wedding night to discover about sex. You are consigned to a useless sex life. Guys that want to wait are usually like this and it is heartbreaking. Usually girls that want to wait are either frigid, useless lays or are so ugly no one will want them before anyway. Get a vibrator and start thinking about finding A REAL MAN XXXXX God Bless You PS EXPECT LOADS OF ANSWERS FROM THE SILVER RING TRHING RELIGOUS NUTS AAND OTHER THOSE WITH PARTNERS EQUALLY ENDOWED WITH A MIDGET COCK SAYING SIZE DOES NOT MATTER..THATS WHAT ALL THE SMALL ONES SAY HAHAHA
2006-10-03 22:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you like about him?
Focus on that. One nice thing about his size is that he won't hurt you.
Hopefully this isn't going to interfere with your wedding, and for gosh sakes don't make "a big deal" about it. 'Cause you didn't get a big deal but that's all right if he's a good man.
That's what counts. You can make sex work as long as you are both human.
2006-10-03 22:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to South Africa, u'll be more than satisfied. Kidding, i wud say talk to him before its too late, honesty is the best policy, and if u willing and love him, work through it, by books, ask for advice etc. but deal with it now.
2006-10-03 22:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend says one of her exes had a very tiny penis, and it really didn't bother her at all. He was very good in bed, and he was amazing with his tongue.
It sounds to me like your boyfriend just doesn't know how to have good sex. Fortunately, that's something that can be learned. You may be shocked and disappointed right now, but there's obviously a lot you like about the guy, otherwise you wouldn't be engaged. Just teach him how to please you and see if he's a good learner.
2006-10-03 22:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Close one, there's still time for you to get out before you say "I do.". Good thing you convinced micheal to put out before the wedding night.
P.S. Pics aren't necessary.
2006-10-03 22:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow um thats an intresting situation. u need to show him the pics and talk about jus so he knows where ur coming from especially cuz ur saying that ur not getting any pleasure wen u guys have sex
2006-10-03 22:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋