Ther's this amazing lady at work i really like. I'd really like to go out with her. But I get too nervous talking to her and always end up making goofy mistakes. this has never happened to me b4 with any other girl. Also, ther's a hell of a lot of competition 4 her. And i'm not brad pitt.(u know wat i mean)
What should i do? .
2006-10-03 22:24:53 · 13 answers · asked by Desotex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop having low self esteem is a good start. If you don't consider yourself Brad Pitt, then fine, but at least carry yourself with some confidence. Just talk to her like you would talk to anyone else. Take it easy but don't be too slow with it either, if there's competition, you don't want to be left at the starting gate. Try to find out some things that you may have in common with her. Just swallow your fear and ask her out, what's the worst that can happen? The worst thing she can do is tell you "No". Be brave man...we've all been there one time or another, this will help you get courage for the future. Good luck.
2006-10-03 22:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by morningstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has half a brain she knows what's going on with you. She either likes you or she doesn't. Try sending her a card and write a note expressing your wish to take her to dinner. Pick a nice place to eat.
If she says no find another girl. If she says yes, just be yourself and don't try to be Brad Pitt. If she likes you you'll find a comfort level with her.
2006-10-04 05:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy, Check your profile and I dont mean your physique.
She will always be over you till you discover that beauty does not make a queen .Get the infatuation out of your system.
2006-10-04 05:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Elsalsis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was watching this T.V show the other night and it said that the slower you breathe the less nervous you are. i dont know if it works but i hope this helped in a way.
2006-10-04 05:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by luvvey_00001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her out to lunch. Women don't feel threatened by lunch dates. Give her the opportunity to get to know you.
2006-10-04 05:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her to go somewhere with u so that she is away from the competition then just gotta keep telling yourself theat she is just another girl. then just be yourself and if she doesnt like you for you then she isnt worth it
2006-10-04 05:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try more harder then b4.
Best of luck, hope some day u can tell her abt ur feelings.
2006-10-04 05:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the way i see it, the worst that can happen is she says no and its over. Just ask, she says (enter yes or no) and you move on. not losing anything if u do, and not gaining anything if u dont.
2006-10-04 05:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Hayakain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up you have no chance. God Bless You
2006-10-04 05:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus talk to her about it wen ur comfterble
2006-10-04 05:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by belikeme808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋