Im meeting this gal that i never met but spoken to her for nearly 2years by txt and talkin by phone but the problem is what will i do when ill see her? Im reali shy and wont be talking much i can be reali nervouse wen things like that happen wat do i need to do, to not be shy and all that stuff? I just wanna be myself wen we meet face to face!! I cant explain or question wat i need for help from you all but thats all i can think of to say, sorry....
2006-10-03 22:23:48 · 11 answers · asked by Leah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I get really shy around people when i first meet them also. What helps me is to talk about something I really enjoy (for me it is football Steelers). Next thing you know I am relaxed, laughing and having a good time.
Good luck, I hope everything works out.
2006-10-03 22:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by tina j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-04 06:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just say you're sort of nervous,she'll understand. Keep in mind that this is the same person that you've been communicating to for all these time, only now she's got a face! Just be confident that you can do this, I bet she'll also be nervous, even just a tinny bit.
2006-10-04 05:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first few minutes, or hour or so, you'll both be nervous. But if there's anyway you can keep in mind of all the things you've talked about in the last couple of years, you'll be fine in no time.
Good Luck!!
2006-10-04 05:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh *** on! being a guy,u r so much shy,juz have confident,wen u go to meet her,wear cool clothes,wear nice perfume,gr8 shoes, b as u r,b urself,u dnt hv to change much,b direct & open to her,b friendly,u know itz easy, why worry?wud she eat u up!
i tel u wen u meet her,juz b as u r ,wat u r, dnt show off got it,share ur life wid her,share many things,juz b normal buddy,hv fun
BEST LUCK!
2006-10-04 06:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was watching this t.v show the other night and it said that the slower u breathe the less nervous u r. i dont know if it works but hope it helps in a way.
2006-10-04 05:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by luvvey_00001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there's more to the story on why you two are meeting up. If you'd care to elaborate, feel free to e-mail me.
2006-10-04 05:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a friend dont judge a book by its cover and hope 4 the best just be yourself and never and i mean NEVER ever tell thats she's fat
2006-10-04 05:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by jupjup10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see her, say what you honestly feel, so say that you are nervous cause you are with her for the first time and it stops from being yourself.....it will help you break the ice
2006-10-04 05:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope sorry no help here
2006-10-04 05:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by nothere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋