i have tried suicide a few times and nothing seems to help , and one of my friends tried aswell because of me trying it . no matter what i do it seems to affect other people to.
2006-10-03 22:13:22 · 25 answers · asked by kizzyrbb 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Many people still carry the misperception that suicidal thoughts or behaviors are deserved -- that when a person has reached this point in their lives, there is no turning back. Nothing could be further from the truth. You can turn back. If you are thinking about suicide right now, you may want to visit this web page (http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/), or (in the United States) call 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433).
2006-10-03 22:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by 99CLOUD99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it will affect others around you. You need to start taking responsibility for your actions. Turn the situation around. If somebody you loved did this stuff you would be upset and angry. Other people have feelings too. Stop being selfish. If you are feeling depressed, I appreciate that you may be feeling like nobody cares, but they do. Trying to kill yourself will not make people love you more, you will just get a negative reaction, which ultimately will re-inforce how you are already feeling. Try to let people in a little bit more and talk to them. Tell them what is going on in your head. I am sure that they would rather hear you talk, than see you dripped up in a hospital bed. I don't think this suicide attempt was serious, otherwise you would not be asking for help, which you seriously need. Go and see a therapist and get some help to unravel your issues. Also talk to your Doc about medication.
2006-10-04 12:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people haven't a clue! I have been physically sick for 25 years, AND I have suffered greatly from depression. Obviously some people don't know that "get over it" is not an option if you're clinically depressed. Of course when you try to commit suicide your actions will affect other people, because whether you realize it or not, there are people around you who love and care about you. I know if you are suffering from depression, you can't see that. Trust me, I know. You need to talk to your parents or someone else you trust, an adult if you're a minor. Get to a psychiatrist so they can find out what they can do for you!
Please don't think you can "get over this", and suicide is not the answer. If you have felt this way long enough to try it several times, you need to seek help.
Good luck, and don't worry about what all the people on here who don't "get it".
2006-10-03 22:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by class act 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have tried committing suicide a few times and trust me, it doesn't achieve anything but more pain. You should go and see you're local GP and they might be able to recommend a councilor or therapist or maybe even a psychiatrist. It doesn't mean you're crazy seeing these people, it's good to get help and once you do, you'll feel a little bit better after a while.
You might be suffering from some sort of depression because that's what generally causes these thoughts and actions and anti-depressants can help sometimes. But PLEASE, don't harm yourself in anyway, it's not worth it.
Hope you feel better soon, good luck : )
2006-10-03 22:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Black Rainbow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you kill yourself you will never know if things could get better.trying to kill yourself is also having a very bad effect on those around you it is extremly selfish and helping no one.
if you have sought medical help and you havnt felt any better you need to look at what it is thats making you feel like this and change it!
if its a man get rid of him!
if its other things in your life a really good answer is to move to a new area.geta fresh start.new house,new job new friends.it might seem like you are running away from your problems but running is better than dying.give yourself another chance.
its hard to suggest what to do when you dont say what the problem is.
also if you really wanted to kill yourself you would be dead by now.stop trying it you could do yourself some serious damage and just hurt those who care about you.
be strong stop relying on others to help you.your the only person who can fix you!
2006-10-03 22:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have tried 2 times and i am only 13. i can give you some advice, just think of the one thing that stops you from doing it then think of that person or thing when you feel that you are starting to think "suicide". whenever you try doing it somewhere down the line it's going to hurt someone. no one ever told me this so i just needed help for it. Hope this helps. Just think about what ya doing. x x x x
2006-10-04 01:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Dyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the suicide hotline, and also, stop being a wuss and trying to kill yourself because you're not strong enought to live. Get attention another way. Go have a tantrum or something. But it's pathetic that there are people everywhere fighting for their lives, and people that wish they were as healthy as you, without cancer and pain and getting radiation, and broken limbs and diseases, and here you are this healthy little thing, all getting ready to kill yourself because you're a giant baby who's parents don't pay enough attention to, and the only way you can get attention is by trying to kill yourself. Sheesh. Get a therapist, take some pills, get some friends, and learn to appreciate life and be lucky you have so much, instead of spitting in the faces of people who wish they had your health everywhere.
2006-10-03 22:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
How do you think people are going to be affected if you actually achieve it! You might have problems, every one does, but do you have any idea what it feels like to lose someone to suicide! Its selfish! If you need help then go to a mental hospital if its that's serious, or just get counselling!
2006-10-03 22:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if you are severely depressed. I have been where you are now and please believe me, you CAN get through it and feel better. You can't do it without help though, so if you haven't already, you really need to go to your doctor and tell them how you are feeling. This is what I did after feeling really dreadful for a very long time. I was referred to a psychatric doctor, who diagnosed me with clinical depression. I was then put on anti-depressants and given counselling. I haven't looked back since and as long as I take my medication and some other precautions (like not drinking too much!) I'm fine! So please, if you haven't done so already, go get some help
2006-10-04 02:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by manic1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
so sorry to hear of your troubles; as a life-long depressive personality I DO know where you're coming from. Believe me, suicide is not the answer (My brother-in-law shot himself some time ago and the waves are still spreading) You need to talk to someone objectively; your doctor, your pastor/priest/vicar, a counsellor. Samaritans are good listeners and have contacts.
Hang on please, there is help!
Take care
2006-10-03 23:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋