i broke up with my bf of 5yrs. he cheated on me because he was unhappy with me. I know this sounds silly, but i wasn't there when he was struggling. i feel bad about it, and i'm not mad at him anymore.
but we argued a lot and hurt each other sooo bad. he changed his cell number, and i don't have his contact info anymore. i sent a message through myspace, but i guess he hasnt logged in yet.
I still love him, but i don't think he wanna get back with me. I still miss him and wanna hang out as friends.. dont know what to do though...
2006-10-03 22:13:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think he's so call petty type of person... or there's something thaty had happened during the relationship that he will never forget. Forget about him and carry on with your life since he seems 'avoiding' you...
2006-10-03 22:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. We were engaged for over 10 years. Although we were friends in school, didn't date until the summer before my sophomore year of college and her freshman year at a different college. It became a long distance relationship after I dropped out following my sophomore year, while she continued on to a Ph.D. and not wanting me around as she considered me distracting. At a low period of loneliness, I gave in and had a year long relationship with another, and I guess from guilt over that, when she moved to California to begin her career and gave me a come with me now or forget it ultimatum, I stayed here. We communicated a little after that, but when she moved to a new location in California, and didn't hear from her until I got a wedding invitation, I was devastated - detested the thought of having anything to do with her again. Well, after a few years, she started sending holiday cards, and we gradually started communicating again. Even though I never came clean about the other woman, I am glad we did reopen the channel of communication. She's even giving encouragement in my soon to be dating again after 20 years, since I have changed jobs and no longer work hours that gave no time for relationships.
Don't give up hope!
2006-10-04 05:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Carl S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you wanna hang out as 'just friends'? I fooled myself into thinking the exact same thing with an ex of mine. I actually caught him in bed with another girl (thank god they weren't doing anything at the time). We'd been together for only two years, nothing compared to your five, but it still tore me to shreads. I didn't speak to him for months after that, but eventually it became easier.
I thought for a while we could be friends, but came to the conclusion that realistically, I wouldn't be able to cope with just that.
It's been two years since we broke up and now we're great mates. It did take us a while, but he's an absolutely beautiful boy, and I'm over him in that way. I used to think i'd never get over him!
Give yourself and him some time before thinking about friendship, or you may end up getting hurt all over again
2006-10-04 05:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by belle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont want anything to do with my ex hubby after he cheated on me and then married the ugly b@@@@(she has a thicker mustache than he does) two months after we got divorced He played soo many mind games with me and my friends that I had to quit my job of three years and move three hundred miles away Before I moved He would pretend to be my friend to my face then blame me for our marriage breaking up Hey I didnt cheat but I did threaten to castrate him if he did cheat then came home to me and I got anything( I never meant it though)
Now that I have moved away and started a new live with my boyfriend and our three month old son My ex is soo jealous that I am finally over him and happy and he is miserable because he married the girl cause she said she was pregnant but faked it and then said she would kill herself if he left her I forgave him but he still to this day two years later wont tell me what I did to deserve the H@@L he put me through
2006-10-04 05:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by evillynn8098 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When 2 people stay friends after a relationship, it's either they're still in love with each other or they were never really in love.
2006-10-04 05:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by tisyu_paper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u still need to wait and want him back,he cheated on u,do u want to be cheated?do u think if you will ask him back after he you break up for the reason of cheating he will not do it again.Girl leatn ur lessons in life,he's not to one for you,try to find someone else who will love you and will not cheat you,frends can be lovers but lovers can't be friends you will just hurt yourself at the long run.
2006-10-04 05:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i do keep in touch with my ex. even if things didn't work out between us, i would still like to be friends with him.
anyway, as for you, when did you broke up? i think its still recent. so just give it more time and space. use that time and space to reflect and heal. don't push things, everything will fall into place the way it should be.
2006-10-04 05:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by bloss_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dated for 5 years, but how long ago did you part ways? I have a certain "EX" that I would love to be in touch with. We seperated almost 20 years ago. (boy, do I miss her)
2006-10-04 05:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i do, nothings wrong with it unless u have a bf and u cheat. once u contact him talk to him and start hanging out again. i know how you feel and u should jus do it
2006-10-04 05:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by belikeme808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just copy and paste the question to an email and send. You will get so romantic answer.
2006-10-04 05:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by A0909 B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋