me and my bf have been going out for just about 2 months already and today he got deployed for 7 months cuz hes in the navy. anyway we love each other to death and wen he comes back we plan on getting married and starting a family together. i really love him and vice versa. anyway so after we said our goodbyes at the port i got on a plane to fly back home, i logged on to messenger and i started talking to one of my xbfs. we were together for about a month or so, so it wasnt really anything serious. we start talking about how my bf is gone and idk wat to do and all kinds of stuff like that. throughout the whole conversation hes giving me great advice and jus trying to make me happy. so i was like ''ur such a great friend idk wat i would do witout u and stuff'' and out of no were he says "i wanted to tell u this for so long, i love you and u make me feel good in so much ways...''. so i was taken back by this and told him that he shouldnt be saying that and stuff cuz im with someone else.
2006-10-03 22:08:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not a bad thing for someone to express their love towards you, even if you're married. But its your responsibility to stay behind the limits and control your relationship. don't get carried away with the wave. That's simple right ? Good luck and I wish you and your Naval boy a very happy marriage
2006-10-03 22:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Thilina Guluwita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off before the current Bf gets wind of it.Where has he been the sly roach. He is just trying to get back in to your life.Why did he leave in the first place. You wanna ruin a good r/shp for some sucker who never showed any seriousness?
Real love comes but once if it passes you by, You will regret it,He is an Ex for a reason isn't he?
Now Go to the Chapel Girl,Go get married,Stay true,Focused and I wish you a Blessed marriage.
Now dont take that crap about the time you met is too short.
That is why they say you Fall in love not you experience love. Its a risk Worth taking.
2006-10-03 22:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Elsalsis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months is too short a time to make a commitment. Allow more time to let your relationship grow. You will find disagreeable things in each other. Consider all the pros and cons of your relationship before you make the jump to get married. As your boy friend is on seven months Navy duty, allow that space and time for you to reevaluate past relations and whether they are below or above the bar of your present one. Don't let your emotions cloud your judgment. Let reason help you choose what's best for you. It's your long term future. I wish you well.
2006-10-03 22:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by w72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went out with one guy for a month or so and it wasn't anything serious but you dated another guy for just about 2 months and you plan on getting married to him. Confused. What's your question? Should you dump your bf and date your ex? If 2 months is long enough for you to know that you want to marry a guy and have his kids, 7 months of waiting for him to get back will seem like an eternity.
2006-10-03 22:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah Dont fall for this guy It sounds like it is just a line to get you back in the sack again and he is using the classic I love You routine to try and get you back
I think that you should stay with this new guy and see what happens when he gets home on leave from the Navy
There is a saying" Absence makes the heart grow fonder"
2006-10-03 22:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by evillynn8098 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did the right thing then by telling him off like that because if you didn't tell him off then he would be thinking that yous are back to gather again and that would have been the wrong thing to do. OK so good luck to the both of you and your bf and if your friend really dose want to be your friend then he would respect your wishes.
2006-10-03 22:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well long distance relationships are very hard to keep alive and i woul djust tell this guy that is close b that you jsut wnat to be friends and do not go anywhere with him or he will get the wrong idea jsut stay cool with him if youreally love the other man thath is in the navy
2006-10-03 22:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by dee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Xbf telling you his feelings is nothing wrong. atleast he made it clear to you that he loves you. now its for u to decide. If u jus wana be a friend with him say it to him in clear terms. and if he is unable to accept it den u jus move on without him. whatever happens just think it out with a cool head....atb.
2006-10-03 22:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by azimuth_nadir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me, that this so called exbf is testing the waters to see if you'll cheat!!! It kind of sounds like you just might!!
Poor guy in the Navy!!! Look what he left behind!!
2006-10-03 22:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing by saying that because you should never cheat on the one you love
2006-10-03 22:13:56 · answer #10 · answered by blackrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋