i and my fiancee spent some time alone and i am shocked to find out how cold i can be. he doesn't attract me at all and the chemistry is zero from my side. though we are very good friends ,very comfortable and mentally very close but the physical thing doesn't work .its not the same with him. he is fully satisfied with the physical part too but i am left cold. will i spend all my life without any good sex at all.
2006-10-03 21:49:24 · 11 answers · asked by dimdim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you don't have to. Why don't you do a bit of research and find news ways exciting ways to do things in bed. Also talk to your man about it. He will be accommodating and will try new positions and foreplay. I know that my man gets bored very quickly and he told me and so we make an effort to do something different every time we are together. Keep the sex drive alive!
2006-10-03 21:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just now i was thinking abt this. I got the same prob. I am thinking of discussing the physical part of our relationship with him 2nite and see how he cud amend things. U cud always do the same but that depends how much understanding he is and how much do you think he will help coz u can't say outright to a man that he doesn't satisfied you.
2006-10-04 04:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not physically attracted to him, then dont marry him, he obviously does not excite you in bed..dont do it or you will eventually stray...Sex and physical attraction are a very important part of a relationship
2006-10-04 04:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither i m gynacologist nor a sexologist but what i feel at the end is u need to be more and more agressive while having sex ...u need to take part with all your devotions and i m sure u would suceed ...
2006-10-04 06:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by Samir B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are doomed a life of unfulfilling sex, unless you do something about it now. Of course, what do I know. I'm just a squirrel.
2006-10-04 04:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by supersquirrel987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he's just your fiancee yet, its not too late to turn around. And ask yourself. Do you want stay with him as he has good personality etc? Or you need it more than that...
2006-10-04 04:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will get out now and find someone less plain fat boring and useless. God Bless You
2006-10-04 04:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is satisfied but you're not. think of your self not his. life is too short so enjoy it. don't waste time spending it with mr. freeze.
2006-10-04 04:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't if you don't marry him. Can you be faithful and live without satisfaction?
2006-10-04 04:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have an affair. Do it now, thank me later.
2006-10-04 04:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋