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2006-10-03 21:47:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

I am guessing the question is:

Is it important to love or to be loved?

They are equally important as you cannot have a healthy relationship without giving and taking. You must give love and expect love in return.

Since your question is not vague I think this explanation should fit most relationships, however in a family/marriage relationship you should love unconditionally. None of the I will love you if, I will love when, I will love you except. That is simply unfair because no one can live to anyone else's expectations and be constantly measuring up, especially when naturally we tend to raise the bar higher each time.

Yet even in this case give and take has a role.

If you plan on getting married and your potential future spouse only takes and doesn't give (I am not talking on a physical level or sexually) then you really need to consider if you will want to live like that for the rest of your life always giving and rarely receiving. It is a sacrificial love that may or may not be rewarded ultimately in this life.

2006-10-03 22:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet n Sour 4 · 0 0

Both is as important as the other. If you cannot love how can you expect to be loved.

2006-10-04 04:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 1 0

Both are equally important, we need to love and be loved. It is the same side of a coin.

2006-10-04 07:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by Rijied 2 · 0 0

Both are important but to love is better and more fulfilling.

2006-10-04 05:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0 0

Both...the worst is loving and not feeling loved back in return

2006-10-04 04:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by A Sad Guy... 1 · 1 0

Both is important...

2006-10-04 05:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

very important

2006-10-04 04:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

If you love someone, let him/her that you really love him/her, then you will be loved by your loved one

2006-10-04 04:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by Shengjie Su 2 · 1 0

both
coz if you don't love someone u won't be happy
if you are not loved you will feel something missing

2006-10-04 04:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by dine in 1 · 0 0

Both.

2006-10-04 04:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by MICKEY MOUSE 5 · 0 0

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