I keep bumping into this guy at work everyday and I see him at the cafetaria for lunch. Our first meeting is very fresh. We met at an office party and I noticed him for the reason that he was constantly staring at me???!He came up and spoke to me that day but I was in a real rush and had to leave the party. Since then it has been a casual hello now and then, and yes, we are still continuing the 'silently looking at each other' bussiness. He tries talking to me at lunch....but the real problem is that I freeze whenever I see him and dont get my words....i know he has been trying to talk to me but....looks like I am making a fool of myselves by not being normal.....I wud love to talk back and start a conversation too...but I guess I am just missing out on all the chances....since I see him at lunch only. I have been noticing that since 2 days, he has been acting not-interested, and god!!!...pls...I dont want to loose this guy!!!.....pls...help!!
2006-10-03 21:29:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put his number on this site and we'll all tell him how you feel, or, just write a note saying you are so nervous and would love to talk to him, but freeze up, and then put it in his hand personally and make him read it in front of you.......................
2006-10-03 21:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by fed up with stupid questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you the two artwork contained in the comparable place, you in all risk comprehend what his activity is, so, attempt to locate some excuse, situation or some thing, employer appropriate, you in easy terms would desire to ask him approximately, you comprehend, in basic terms that might actually assist you initiate conversing, while it truly is approximately artwork, you will in all risk sense much less awkward, and be extra waiting to loosen up. And that way you will see if he's involved, as though he's, he will in all risk initiate conversing and be happy to assist, no rely the situation. And that way you're additionally retaining your self from being rejected, reason, of direction, you asked a splendidly everyday question, you're no longer hitting on him or something like that, lol.
2016-10-01 22:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi first thing take a long breath and say to yourself that you will behave normally when u meet this person again and when he tries to talk to you next time look into his eyes and smile. say a few words..try and meet over a cup of cofi. next time you meet him...u can walk over to him and say a hi...just start a talk..
trust me, all the tension will boil up only to the first or second meeting..from then on..you will find yourself at peace..
he might be acting not interested probably because he thought that you were not interested in him...so lay all fears to rest...and all the best for tomorrows lunch..
2006-10-03 21:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by azimuth_nadir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and talk / propose him, this the only thing which can help u, and it would be a straight forward solution, as it will tell u the real ground situation, that he does love u or is it just ur imagination.
2006-10-03 21:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by rohit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't feel shy, next time you should approach him , stare at him and be the one who is interested and tell him that you freeze when you see him and you cant talk cause he's so charismatic and attractive
2006-10-03 21:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're juz imagining that he's looking at you?
You can try to be more normal the next time he talks to you.
2006-10-03 21:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by band_craze4f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋