I went on a date to the movies with a guy I met on a charity walk. He called me two days later to ask to go out to eat. Last time he paid and picked the movie, should I pick the restaurant let him pay for dinner and pay for the movies this time? When he called he didnt mention a place cause I dont think he'd thought that far ahead...what should I do?
2006-10-03 21:23:04 · 14 answers · asked by amofber 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
pick the place and movie. if he protests, he's not that into you. offer to pay, and if he's a gentleman, he won't let you. give him a call to finalize the date, and say "have you tried this place? I heard it was great," and say, "have you seen this movie yet? my friend said it was awesome!" That way you're suggesting, but also getting his input. Good luck!
2006-10-04 02:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did no longer point out how the date went. How develop into it? develop into it great? a good number of chemistry or in basic terms ok or undesirable? in case you the two had a great time ... then i does no longer hardship too plenty. in my view, i certainly does no longer desire to hold hands or do too a good number of tangible contacts quite yet on first date. So, i do no longer possibly think of that he gave a bad sign ... such as you suggested, he in all risk tried to appreciate your area and being a real gentleman. the shown fact which you the two kissed, for me that feels like a good date. So, how many days on condition that final time you heard from him? If he's involved, he'd call so in basic terms carry close tight! good success!!!
2016-10-01 22:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in this day and age, it's cool to share the costs of dating. My rule of thumb is: whoever does the inviting pays. That being said, I'll ask a guy out, be prepared to pay, but if he really insists on paying, I'll let him.
2006-10-04 02:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by locolady98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that would be the nice thing to do but if he.....wants to be a "big man" and offer to pay for everything then you better let him. He might think you are paying half because you don't want to be more than just "friends."
2006-10-03 21:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pay. this puts you two on even ground. It stops the feeling that you are indebted to him or owe him something. If he didn't mention a place, you go ahead and mention one. Be assertive, men like that.
2006-10-03 21:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I'm not mistaken etiquett dictates that the person who asks, pays. But lots of people don't know that, so I think it would be nice to at least offer to pay for one or the other.
Have fun!
2006-10-03 23:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by class act 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don' t make a fuss, keep it simple, a good date always offer to pay even if you know he won't let you its only polite. The place really doesn't matter your there to enjoy his company
2006-10-03 23:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by pennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who asked whom out on the date?
As a general rule, whoever does the asking should pick up the check.
2006-10-04 03:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by sylvia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take turns in paying :)
2006-10-03 21:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
as far as i'm concerned, guys pay. when they can
if you guys are too young, or he doesn't have regular income, or low income, then you can indeed consider paying for part of the date, as you suggest.
2006-10-03 21:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by AntoineBachmann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋